"I will leave the parent group, what's the matter?" The teacher's responsibility should not be passed on to the parents
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In the schoolwork of students, the guidance and correction from parents can only be regarded as icing on the cake, and cannot be a necessary part.
"What's the matter with me leaving the parent group!" "You don't have to worry about teaching in get out of class, and you ask me to help correct your homework after class. What do I want you to do?" You still have to say with your conscience that you’ve worked hard for your homework." "To be honest, what’s the hard work? Teach me to teach, change me, who worked hard?"
Recently, the head of a family in Jiangsu said that the teacher asked parents to correct homework and tutor homework, so that he took the responsibility of the teacher, and shouted "What happened to me leaving the parent group?"
Many netizens think that he has said something he wants to say but dare not say.
This is just like a joke used to ridicule the post-80s generation. This generation thinks that they will be liberated after the college entrance examination, but they never expected that after a few years they gave birth to their own children, and they have to learn their homework from elementary school to high school .
Let’s take a look at this incident. A teacher’s "high opinion" in the screenshot of a group chat broke out by parents:
"If you cooperate with our work, we will naturally care more about your children."-This means that if parents don't cooperate with the teacher to correct their homework, they will not care much about their children?
How can this smell of threat and exchange?
"Parents who haven't finished correcting, think this is the teacher's job?"-It turns out that some teachers really think that correcting homework is the parent's job.
"Your precious time is invested in children, and children will be more precious and precious in the future!"-Let's change the subject and change "you" to "teacher", not to mention gold, teachers spend the time that should be devoted to students If it is in place, students will thank you in the future.
To put it bluntly, what the teacher said is not a PUA to parents.
That's why the parent in Jiangsu questioned: I teach, and I change it. I still have to say without my conscience that the teacher has worked hard. Who has worked hard?
Nowadays, children's education problem seems to be a whirlpool, and a lot of time and energy are sucked in.
Parents who have the ability and spare energy can certainly take care of their children's studies.
After all, family education is also part of education.
But in terms of specific tasks, the guidance and correction from parents can only be seen as icing on the cake, not a necessary part.
Moreover, you must know that some parents do not have the ability to mark homework.
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Let parents correct their homework. It really depends on two points: First, the communication is developed, and the parents can be arranged by sending a notice by typing in a paragraph; second, some parents now have more than before. High education and ability.
However, the parent group should provide convenience, not pressure; it should establish efficient communication and harmonious relationships, rather than inefficient entanglement and oppressive relationships.
In fact, the burden of schoolwork of primary and secondary school students spilling over to their families has long been a phenomenon that cannot be lost.
Not long ago, the Taiyuan City Education Bureau issued opinions on the work of reducing the burden of primary and secondary school students, expressly strictly forbidden to ask parents to correct homework, clean the classroom, and like and forward all kinds of information.
Previously, Chongqing, Shandong and other places have also issued similar regulations.
However, this kind of responsibility transfer from campus to family has become quite common, and even some school cleaning requires parents to participate, otherwise they will be accused of disrespecting the collective and teachers.
The relationship between self-empowerment and power and responsibility is reversed, which is speechless.
Forcing others to do things that are not within the scope of their duties should be confident; the coerced party has to be committed and has no courage to withdraw from the group. This is abnormal.
After all, it's not easy for anyone, but the boundaries of power and responsibility must be clear.
Some "baggage" is yours, so don't give it to others.
□ and return (media person)