Do men also pretend orgasms?

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Yes, they can also do it and this is confirmed by `` Fiction vs. Reality in sex '', the first sexual study of Bijoux Indiscrets in Spain.

According to this research, at least 21.2% of men admit to having faked an orgasm in their lives . Perhaps, if many were discovered, they would equal 5 1.1% of women who claim to have ever pretended. And the same, they even get over it.

So this behavior, which traditionally seemed to be reserved for women, turns out to be not as exclusively feminine as they had told us.

WE ALSO KNOW

We, who believed that our feminine abilities to pretend and not be caught were goddess level, we do not realize when they do.

'The Journal of Sexual Medicine' published a study conducted by experts from Brigham Young University in which 1,683 newly married heterosexual couples commented on their partners' perception of their climax. It highlighted that 43% of couples are not able to specify when the real orgasm arrives .

Perhaps worst of all, when you pretend an orgasm, you think you are cheating on your bed partner, without being aware that the deception occurs towards oneself .

At first glance, it is obvious that we have it easier. A pair of gasps, groans and intense breathing, muscular tension, peculiar body movements, type arching the back, and zas! He doesn't even know.

But how can they do it?

HOW THEY GET IT

Men pretend their orgasm 25% of the time, especially during vaginal penetration , according to two studies, one from 2010 from the University of Kansas and another from 2016 from Quebec.

So power, they can. Although, indeed, they have it more complicated. First, because they need to have an erection , a 'detail' that can only respond to real excitement or having taken some medication, drug or injection of certain substances to get it (too many risks to do something as unnecessary as pretending, I think).

Second, they must simulate the ejaculation that usually accompanies orgasm . Here the method is simpler. Without going into much detail and, after using a sound strategy similar to the female but in more serious tones, tell you that the ally seems to be the condom. It is quickly removed, thrown in the trash and nothing has happened here. The curious are not even aware .

It works, it seems to work, but why or why do they do it?

WHY DO YOU FINGEN?

Men pretend for reasons quite similar to those of women, although with nuances. The most common reason would be not to hurt the feelings of the couple and avoid feeling unwanted.

To mark the end of a sexual encounter, as a strategy to increase one's arousal or avoid insecurity or fear of not reaching orgasm if you often have difficulties.

This scale of falsification of the female orgasm is usually shared by the men who pretend, just as sexual myths are shared.

For example, in our culture we live a finalist sexuality where not obtaining orgasm is associated with not having obtained pleasure, when it is not.

Sometimes, he pretends to match the couple's orgasm. Understanding simultaneous orgasm as the sumun of pleasure, as shown in so many films, leads to a 'pious orgasm '.

This, in a timely manner, does not seem to have much importance, however, if it is done regularly, it prevents the enjoyment of the relationship, it implies a lack of openness towards the couple and could even lead to dysfunctions that would suppose a real affectation, such as ejaculation delayed, for example.

Because female pleasure, in heterosexual relationships, continues to be associated with male abilities, intense anxiety is generated in men that affects their genital sexual response and hinders the triggering of orgasms.

This inability to not get orgasms can generate frustration and even shame , so you may prefer to 'theatrical' before facing the reality of what is happening. But attention, sexually empowered women can also generate the same effect.

Ultimately, what underlies is the fear of failure, losing an erection or ejaculating earlier than expected. Issues that become more apparent the older the man is and his masculinity is threatened by a woman.

In any case, if you want to achieve sexual happiness, do not pretend, communicate, cultivate the sense of humor and live the pleasure without setting goals .

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