[SBS Special] I accuse my father ①       

Not neglecting child support is not neglecting our children.

In the SBS special broadcast on the 16th, the subtitle of'I accuse my dad' highlighted non-parents who do not pay child support.

Ida Doshi, a French broadcaster who received great love in the 90s. He recently accused his ex-husband of'Bad Fathers', who reveals the identity of non-custodial parents who do not pay child support.

Idadoshi said, "I had never received child support. At first I waited a little. After the divorce, I was so distracted and confused that the other person thought it would. So I waited. But I still haven't paid child support and I have never contacted the children. "No."

Ida city left behind with children in Korea who came to study just over 20 years old. He explained, "I also got a stinging eye after divorce. Divorced woman from foreign country. It was difficult at first. Somehow, because I have a lively and happy image, it became difficult, so I certainly did not get broadcasts and people didn't want to see me." did. But he overcame it and was appointed professor of French literature at a university in Seoul.

He said, "I was asked a lot about why I didn't go back to France. But I didn't commit a crime, so why am I leaving. It's just a divorce, but I didn't have to give up my dreams," he said about the reason for raising children in Korea.

In addition, he said, "Before I uploaded to Bad Fathers, I had a lot of thoughts. I also consulted with the children. First, they asked me why I was still bringing out old stories. First, I completely erased my dad. So I have no expectations. But the second is a little different. There is still a lot of anger in my young heart,” he explained.

And when he showed the current picture of his father's father to the children, he allowed him to disclose his personal information. However, he also said that it would be nice if the mother was hurt and not hurt again because of this.

Iida City was a delight when the child support management officer was established five years ago. He thought it was only a matter of time before receiving child support. However, the ex-husband did not respond to the order of execution or the order of immunity, and this order could not exert any power on his ex-husband abroad. That the other party was in a foreign country and the judgment was made against punishment. The effectiveness of listing on the list of defaulters also had limitations for those who went abroad.

When asked if there was anything that could be done for the city of Ida, the Child Support Implementation Officer replied that there seemed to be little, creating a regret. There was nothing left from the five-year lawsuit.

In response, Idado City said, "It is a system that simply bypasses the judgment of the law and the order of the government." Two or three years ago, while thinking differently, I did not pay 2,000 won to the Namsan Tunnel. At that time, a bill to pay the toll came out. I also forgot to pay the toll a few hours late, and then they told me to pay a late fee for not being on time after 7pm. I decided not to use these good methods to claim child support. It is connected with," he expressed his confused mind.

Bad Fathers will be notified in advance to the person concerned before revealing his or her identity. If it is not true, it will be resolved smoothly with the informant, and if not resolved, the personal information may inevitably be disclosed. The former husband of Ida City also contacted him. He argued, "It's an individual problem, with what rights do you have to disclose your personal information?" And he hasn't been contacted anymore since the reveal.

It was revealed that the ex-husband of Ida City, tracked through social media, was running two Korean-related companies in Vietnam. Accordingly, the production crew followed his ex-husband in Vietnam. But it wasn't easy to find him.

The production team got to know the contact information after inquiry. The production crew called Seo, the ex-husband of Ida City, and asked for a position. But he hurriedly hung up, saying, "I have nothing to talk about. I'm in a personal position and I don't want to talk to him." Afterwards, even when I sent a text message, I tried to contact me again and again, silently answering, but nothing more could be heard.

In response, Ida Doshi said, "I'm sorry I have to do this in Korea in 2020. But this money is not my money, but money to be given to our children. It's an eternal debt. It's a debt that children's fathers have to pay their children. You have to fight."

Yooseong, a 14-year-old boy, recently accused her father of not paying child support for child abuse. In response, the lawyer who helped Yoosung's complaint said, "The complaint itself was written by Kim, but it was written so well that there was nothing to do. If non-payment of child support is punished for child abuse, it will be very meaningful in solving the current affairs." Said.

Yooseong and her mother visited her father's house a while ago. Yooseong said, "I wanted to see why we abandoned us when we were young. I was curious about the reason." However, before Yooseong's arrival, the mother met with the police, not the father's father, because his father reported the mother as a home intrusion.

Yooseong said, "I was angry that I couldn't pay child support because I couldn't make money when I was driving a foreign car. And I was angry that I was raising a child after remarrying."

The production crew met Yooseong's father and asked why he did not even contact the children and pay child support. Accordingly, Yooseong's father told the story of Yuseong's child abuse complaint. He said, "I didn't feel good. No one listens to my story. I don't know how to explain this part, and I have a lot of trouble. I also wanted to go. I work like a ephemera and I often sleep in a jjimjilbang." did.

And when it comes to the possession of a foreign car, he said, "The used cost is less than 8 million won. My wife's name and I couldn't help but report the intrusion to the house. I have a 16-month-old child, and I scream and knock on the door. Who can open the door?" Asked again. In addition, he said about the child support payment, "I will do it after a trial and a fixed amount. If I don't, I will give my pocket money instead."

The expert stressed, "Child support is money that must be paid regardless of the outcome of the trial. Now it is an obligation that arises from the nature of paternity, regardless of the outcome of the trial." However, even in such a situation, 78.8% of children were not receiving child support, and 73.1% of them had never received child support, which was shocking.

Mr. Sun-hee went into hiding today to capture her ex-husband who did not follow the child support order. Only 86 million won was received for child support, but his ex-husband spit out a blatant saying, "The biggest stain in my life is the three of you, so I am not responsible for child support and if you can't raise children, send them to me."

In the end, Sun-hee went out to the street to capture her ex-husband. Even though the ex-husband had been ordered to be detained, the time and manpower to track it were insufficient, so he went on his own.

As a result, Sun-hee took over her ex-husband by hiding herself. However, the police released his ex-husband saying there was no related data. This was an absurd incident that occurred because the police did not confirm the court case registration.

And the police admitted their mistakes and went out to arrest Sun-hee's husband more actively. But a few days later, it had an unexpected ending. Sun-hee's ex-husband surrendered to the police. He was released after being detained for 15 days, saying he had embroidered because he loved his wife. And he didn't say he would pay child support until the end, citing financial difficulties.

How is the French child support system different from ours? In France, legal penalties were available for failure to pay child support. With a two-year imprisonment and a fine of 15,000 euros, the most important thing regarding the payment of child support was the forced collection.

A French official said, "We look for debtors for child support by all means. And in case of retirement, we contact an annual payment agency to request that child support be collected." He also introduced a system in which a state agency makes advance payments on behalf of child support. . This was a way to help parents focus on their children and their happiness.

The official stressed, "It is our duty to help us avoid the risk of poverty."

Finally, broadcasting is the first step in recognizing the natural fact that the duty of raising children for minors cannot be avoided. In addition, considering the government's help for the shortcomings of non-custodial parents with difficult economic conditions is to heal the wounds of children who are struggling after their parents' divorce and help them grow. He said that this means not neglecting our children.

(SBS funE editor Kim Hyo-jeong)