[SBS Special] Now is the age of confusion-Can your child study alone? ②

Why can't we mix up with our children?

The SBS Special broadcast on the 19th highlighted the self-directed learning of children, the so-called'Mixed', with the subtitle of'Now is the age of mixed-can your child study alone?'

Corona 19's first ever online school opening, and many parents and children are complaining of difficulties. Problems in children's learning methods were clearly revealed through online classes.

Lee Jung-min's mother, who loves math and English, appealed for help, saying, "Jung-min needs a little help. Then, what happened to Jung-min?

One week at school, two weeks at home, Jeong Min-kun, and the focus of his online class was YouTube, not class. Shinsegae and Jung Min-gun, who came to taste during online classes, tried to overcome YouTube's temptation every morning, but the turn failed.

The mother, who could not see it still, made calls to Jung Min-gun from time to time to confirm and call the police even after going to work. And this led to a conflict between Jung Min-gun and his mother. In response to this, my mother said, "I think I'm at the limit now. If I talk, only friction will occur. It's not just Jungmin who is like that."

Middle-aged Andy's mother, called Eom Chin-ah, said, "I can't handle it enough to shake my mind. There is no answer. If this is prolonged, there will be a sigh of what to do." Andy, who has been famous for being a model student after hearing elementary school since elementary school, but Andy started to teach online and everything collapsed.

Andy falls asleep without being able to endure hours of online classes. In response, the mother said, "It was an impeccable son a few months ago with fire. But after I started school online, my son was different." It is."

Why did children fall through online classes?

In response, the expert analyzed, "I learned the reality. The children seemed to study on their own, but because of the eyes, expectations and social environment of the outsiders, they seemed to be studying the children."

In addition, coach Cho Nam-ho of the entrance examination expert said, "It doesn't change that a child who doesn't do well at home goes to academy. I didn't see it before online classes. There were no friends whose prestigious students weren't self-directed. Online classes reminded me." "I honestly said.

What do 7 prestigious college students who have studied a little think about mixing? They emphasized, "The study done by my parents is at the end of elementary school, so I have to study what I need, and it is important to realize it. I have to study alone anyway."

The expert said about self-directed learning ability, "the five factors that play a role in the brain function of the frontal lobe function, time management ability, plan management, and emotion management" play an important role.

In response, the broadcast conducted self-directed learning management tests on Andy and Jung-min. First, Jung Min-gun was found to lack time management and spontaneity among the five items.

Experts advised, "The more supervisory and interference you have, the less chance you have to learn to plan or manage yourself. There are things to do before I feel what I need to do, so spontaneity is hard to develop."

What about Andy's test results? Andy said honestly about himself, "I may have been a schoolboy at school, but I'm against at home. I've never done my homework alone and asked to do it."

As a result, Andy's test results showed that his plan management and time management skills were less than 10 out of 100.

Andy, the first of three siblings. Andy's younger brother, Chris, had an opposite character to Andy. So Chris, who has been doing what he liked since childhood. Therefore, unlike his older brother, who had excellent grades, he experienced many failures, and his grades were sharp. However, after the Corona 19 incident, the situation reversed, and even during the online class, he seemed to be selling his homework as well as selling his eyes for a moment.

In response to this, Chris said, "If you don't, you'll lose it, so if you delay it, I'm afraid it will be a problem.

Chris, who is doing self-directed learning, Andy, who wasn't at all, and the mother who looked at the two children after counseling said, "In fact, it's all about me and I raised it. I can protect the child really well. "You can get a book if you want to be an executive. I can't do anything to make you lead."

Coach Nam-ho Cho said to children, "Children have never learned to study alone. One of the classes that must be taken in the first grade when you go to Harvard is learning how to study. This is where children from all over the world gather." He said he should teach me how to study.

In response, the broadcast conducted a four-week mixed project with Cho Nam-ho, a study expert, Kotti. Coach Cho Nam-ho first visited Andy's house, carefully examined his style, and found a problem.

The basis of Andy's study method was memorization. Coach Cho Nam-ho said, "Your study definition was to memorize and memorize the shell. I didn't understand the core and memorized it." Studying as a subject of memorization is not fun. That's actually poisoned in online classes. "I couldn't forget how to think and concentrate when I was studying."

He added, "The opposite of memorization is understanding. You should understand, not memorize. You should study WHY from now on." The way he studied, he puts a question on everything and asks questions, and finds the answer in the next step. Next, explain the answer yourself. This was how to change your study habits from memorization to understanding.

In addition, coach Cho Nam-ho met Jung-min, who fell in love with YouTube. He said, "It is self-directed learning to study only what you need. Normally, people from prestigious universities study mathematics in a way that eats rats. Jungmin said it was perfect."

Then he said, "The study method is very good. But it's a problem to take away your study time on YouTube. "You play with friends from prestigious universities, but when you study, you play clearly and when you play. Study." "The standard is the amount. If you do the amount you set yourself, then you don't feel guilty from then on, just take a break and do what you want," he said.

And he advised, "Children need motivation every day, but if they implement their plans to rest freely, they will be motivated and will feel more fulfilled." He also added that it is important to separate the play area from the study space.

The four-week fusion project began, and the mothers also showed a different attitude. Believing in children and being able to rely on them only when they need them, has become an important helper for them.

Another child who joined the fusion project is Seyoon, a middle school student. Seyun's grades did not rise even though she sat at the desk all day.

As a result of self-directed learning ability test, Seyun has poor emotion control and plan management. Seyun had been studying to depend on her mother because the negative words she had heard remained in her mind.

The expert said, "Seoyun is a little slow child. But mothers think that the speed is wrong, so they send it to a fast academy and fall. Seyun is a little slower." I emphasized that it would work, so don't hurry. He also said that it is most important to fully understand the concept, even in small quantities.

Accordingly, Seyoon who wrote her first study plan. In this regard, Seyoon Lee frankly said, "I thought it would be better if I studied while adjusting the amount because it was new and different."

Jung Min-yi, who conducted a mixed project, said, "I was able to control the temptation of YouTube, and as I planned and studied in minutes instead of time, I felt a sense of accomplishment and spent a lot of time." In the meantime, I even got the attention that I had to think about the need to increase the amount of study for myself.

And Andy started studying to understand, not memorize. Andy said, "I only worked hard in English and Korean, but now I focus on everything. When I think about why this is the answer, I focus on it."

During the mixed project, the children's learning schedule arrived at coach Cho Nam-ho. After confirming this, coach Cho Nam-ho was satisfied. Still, he said he had some problems with Andy's schedule.

He said, "The attitude of studying is great, but the method is inadequate. The time schedule is set closely, but the schedule should be set in minutes, not time. If you modify it, you will be able to take a break and implement a successful study method." .

Lastly, Andy's mother said, "Andy isn't inferior in terms of specifications. But when I look back, it's not real. It was all my mother's greed. I should be my helper. "If the same mothers watch this broadcast, I really want to tell them not to do it."

(Editor of SBS funE Kim Hyo-jung)

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