Data map: The scenery of Kanas Scenic Spot in Xinjiang.
Photo by Shi Xiaokun issued by China News Agency Image source: Cnsphoto
China News Service Client, Beijing, June 17 (Reporter Xing Rui) June 19 is Father's Day.
In fact, not only on this day, many people often feel the depth and greatness of that father's love.
Zhu Ziqing's masterpiece "Back" has left a deep impression on many people.
The article does not have any gorgeous words, but it writes about an ordinary father's simplest love for his child.
In order not to worry Zhu Ziqing, who went to study in the north, his father still pretended to be relaxed in front of his son after suffering successive blows from his family and career.
When the father and son parted, a thousand words and a lot of worries were finally hidden in a pocket of vermilion oranges.
Seeing his father's staggering back disappear into the crowd, Zhu Ziqing couldn't help crying.
The father written by Zhu Ziqing is almost the same as the father in Chinese traditional culture.
Most of them are silent and reserved, not good at words, and hide their love for their children in the trivialities of life.
But in different social contexts, the measure of "good dad" is constantly changing.
Now, how do we play the role of fathers?
Data map: Zhongshan Scenic Area, Nanjing City, Jiangsu Province.
China News Agency issued Sun Zhongnan's photo Source: CNSphoto
There is a saying in "Warring States Policy: The Empress Dowager Zhao of Touching the Dragon": "Parents love their sons, and they have far-reaching plans." A qualified father will definitely make long-term considerations for the future of his children.
They respect their children's hobbies, recognize their dreams, and are even willing to be "stepping stones" on their way to pursue their dreams.
South Korean footballer Son Heung-min won the Premier League Golden Boot a few days ago, becoming the first Asian to win the Golden Boot in Europe's top five leagues.
When receiving this honor, Sun Xingmin said bluntly: "I realized my childhood dream. Today's achievements are due to my hard training with my father."
On the way of Son Heung-min's growth, his father Sun Xiongzheng played a crucial role.
He is the enlightener and leader of his son's football career, as well as the "steward" and mentor of Sun Xingmin's life.
He once formulated a "devil training plan" for his son, only to enable Sun Xingmin to master solid basic skills; in order to help his son adapt to the European football environment, he went to a foreign land and willingly served as his son's caddie; in order to help Sun Xingmin practice physical fitness, he always cooperated with him. The son maintains the same amount of training, and he has developed a whole body of muscle when he is over 500 years old; he also stipulates that Sun Xingmin cannot start a family until he retires, and he must focus on football...
Sun Xiongzheng's strict education method has caused a lot of controversy.
Many people think that parents who interfere and control their children too much will eventually make the children lose themselves.
But for Son Heung-min, football is not only his career and dream, but also an inseparable part of his life.
As a father, Sun Xiongzheng helped him manage the trivialities of life and shielded all the temptations from the outside world, so that he was able to devote himself to football.
Such a "wolf dad" father, even if the outside world has mixed praise and criticism for his approach, it is undeniable that he has made Sun Xingmin today.
In Son Heung-min's heart, he is a great father.
Data map: In the early morning of May 23rd, Beijing time, the curtain of this season's Premier League came to an end.
South Korean star Son Heung-min, who played for Tottenham, scored twice in the final round, scoring the same 23 league goals as Liverpool star Salah this season, winning the Premier League Golden Boot.
Image source: Visual China
Lu Xun once wrote an article entitled "How We Be Fathers Now", which mentioned: "Awakened parents should be completely obligatory, altruistic and sacrifice." In Lu Xun's view, being a father is a It is not easy to give children a healthy body, a strong will, an independent soul, and more importantly, to "shoulder the gate of darkness" for them, and to support them with a bright sky in the face of adversity.
In the movie "Life Is Beautiful", Guido, a Jew played by Roberto Benigni, used lies to weave a beautiful fairy tale world in order to avoid the shadow of war in his son's childhood.
He describes life in a concentration camp as a game where whoever gets 1,000 points first wins a tank.
The son believed it and lived innocently and happily in the haze of the Nazis.
In the end, Guido died tragically at the gunpoint of the enemy for the safety of his son.
A beautiful lie, but behind it is the father's heartfelt care for the child.
Although Guido did not provide his son with a rich material life, the love he gave to his son was enough to nourish him for a lifetime.
Data map: Feitian Park, Dunhuang, Gansu, has clear water and green grass, and the charming desert waterscape invites tourists to take a walk in the park.
Photo by Wang Binyin
There is a saying in China, "If there is a father, there must be a son." This shows the influence of a father's behavior on his children.
A good father does not just preach, but sets an example and strives to be a role model for his children.
Some time ago, the Weibo entry "Internet Addiction Dad Becomes a Fitness Expert to Set an Example for His Son" was on the hot search list.
This dad is a chef in Lishui, Zhejiang, and a loyal game lover.
In the blink of an eye, his son was about to go to primary school. In order not to affect his children's studies and to prevent them from indulging in games, the father started a fitness career and turned into a "muscle man".
The psychologist Geerdi once said: "Father is a unique existence and has a special power for nurturing children." Own.
Data map: Aerial photography shows a magnificent sea of clouds landscape in Mount Lu, which is clear after the rain. Under the blue sky, the billowing sea of clouds crosses the winding mountains, majestic and magnificent.
Photo by Han Junxuan
It is said that a father's love is like a mountain. Although it is silent and silent, it is a lifelong support.
It is not easy to be a qualified father, and the criteria for measuring a "good father" are not static.
As ordinary people, we may not have the vision of Sun Xiongzheng, the warmth of Guido, or even the willpower of "chef dad", but as long as we love our children as much as we can, we can be regarded as qualified. 's father.
Just like Deoksun's father Sung Il-dong said in the Korean drama "Please Answer 1988": "Dad, I was not born a father, and my father is also a father for the first time, so my daughter, please be considerate."
Children, if Dad does something wrong, you have to forgive me a lot.
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