The concept of hospitality includes a wide range of possibilities, it may be a quick session at a friend's house, or a business dinner at a colleague's house, and it can extend to a stay for a few nights in the guest room of a close friend.
But for a person to be a guest in one of the homes, this places some responsibilities on him that must be realized in order for him to be welcomed.
Whether the stay is short or long, guests should respect the customs and traditions of the host home, show gratitude to the hosts and observe the following points:
Be clear about how long you intend to spend
If you are invited to stay for a few days, be clear about the length of your stay based on your invitation.
Don't say you'll be staying for a certain number of days and then decide to extend your stay on your own.
And don't put your host in an awkward position with indirect signals that you want to extend your stay, hoping that he or she will offer you to stay.
Of course, you shouldn't decline the invitation and then accept it after a while, because the host may have changed his plans after your initial rejection.
Be clear about the length of your stay on the invitation extended to you (Shutterstock)
Don't get stuck on your phone from the first moment
Although most of us do not leave our mobile phone, it is rude to ask for the "Wi-Fi" code as soon as we arrive, especially if the arrival is related to the time of lunch or dinner, as it is not right after the owners of the house make a great effort to provide a delicious meal around which everyone gathers. To stay staring at the phone even while eating, with the aim of enjoying meal time with friends or relatives.
No to mess
Most hosts expect a little bit of chaos when guests arrive, but don't be the one who causes unbearable messes, like leaving clothes or shoes messy and out of place.
Do not leave toothpaste tubes open, do not leave the bathroom floor wet, do not leave the hand-washing basin full of soap residue after you, keep the toilet lid dry and closed, do not bring too many personal belongings with you, only bring what you need, and do not act as if you own Place.
Don't be the one who causes unbearable chaos (Getty Images)
Don't be demanding
Even if you're a guest at a close friend's, don't be demanding, and be as nice as you can be.
And don't ask to change household plans, including meals, never object to any type of food.
And if you don't like something, eat others without objection.
And if they want to take you somewhere to welcome you, don't complain even if it's not your favorite place.
If your host has a pet, don't be dissatisfied with it, and don't expect them to lock up or remove their animal while you're away.
And if you really hate pets, apologize for the invitation nicely from the start.
On the other hand, don't bring your pet to your host's house, and don't forget your phone charger.
Always offer to help
Do not act according to the logic of the guest and remain seated in your place without the help of the owners of the house.
You can offer to set the table, help with cooking and washing dishes, fix something indoors, or fold clothes.
Even if your host says no, repeat the offer with kindness and love, always keep your place tidy, don't wait for someone to make your bed in the morning, and always keep your clothes and items in your suitcase or in the locker your landlord has allotted for you.
Don't be demanding (Getty Images)
Follow the homeowners' pace
Don't smoke indoors unless you see them do so first, and don't ask for a temperature change, but it's best to dress appropriately for the atmosphere of the house, and generally avoid complaining.
And if they don't tell you when to go to bed, try to be alert to indirect cues, don't stay up if they go to bed early, and keep the lights and TV on loud, which can distract them and keep them awake.
And do not deal as if you are in a hotel that you arrive late and leave early without meeting the owners of the house and spending some time with them, and sharing some of the events of your day with them.
Don't talk bad after you leave
When you are a guest for a few days at someone's home, you often see them in all their condition.
So, always remember that no one is perfect.
And if you don't like the way the host runs their life, don't get involved during the visit, because being a guest requires a mixture of kindness, a sense of humor, and good manners that oblige you not to speak ill of them even after the visit is over.