Gauthier Delomez 5:47 p.m., December 26, 2022

Jade no longer knows what to think of her relationship with a man she met on the internet, and nine years younger than her.

In the Free antenna of Europe 1, the 50-year-old listener recounts her ambivalent relationship with this man, from a first time that went well to an unhealthy love game.

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At Olivier Delacroix's microphone that evening, Jade, 50, confides in her complicated romantic relationship with a man nine years younger.

It evokes the contours of a chaotic relationship.

"I ended up not understanding anything about my relationship, and being really destabilized. It's a relationship with a man younger than me. I think that's not the root of the problem (...) . I registered on an online dating site, and I met this man. The profile was quite attractive, and it matched in the exchanges. He is quite direct, it makes you want to meet the person and at the same time, it scared me a little. I thought about it, I didn't follow up.

A first meeting that went well

Then he came back to me a bit angry, saying 'You should have told me, I have other possibilities', etc.

He didn't force my hand, but I ended up meeting him at his house.

It went pretty well, he's a bit of an alpha male, pretty sure of himself.

Very quickly, there were exchanges by message.

I saw that there weren't too many respondents, or love messages, but small returns from time to time.

I quickly asked myself questions: he told me 'I want to see each other again, but don't fall in love with me'.

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The relationship progressed: we saw each other, always at his place, we never went out anywhere.

However, he introduced me to his son.

It destabilizes me a little, I don't really understand what he expects or hopes of me.

It is a relationship that is very cold on his side.

He offered to spend Christmas Eve and New Year's Day with him.

Blocked by message for three months

Afterwards, I wanted to talk to him, ask him what he expected of me, why he was telling me he needed perspective, time... I was insistent, and he blocked me for three months.

At the end of those three months, he got back to me, telling me that it would be nice to hear from me.

It resumed, he knew how to be charming, we had a good time.

The holidays arrived, and there he needed to be quiet again.

Me, it worries me because I need to know where I'm going, or have a minimum of exchanges, and then nothing.

When I got back in September, he got back to me again, and after that it was on my birthday.

He invited me, and didn't hear from me again.

It's very destabilizing.

And finally, he invited me to spend Christmas Eve with his little boy with whom I get on well.

I feel as if there were a few more ties, and at the same time, he tells me about a person who interests him at work.

It's like a kind of game, where he tries to tickle me, to make me jealous.

I don't know which foot to dance on, I don't understand at all.

I can't figure out the person."