Europe 1 3:29 p.m., September 02, 2022

Camille has been in a relationship for three years with her spouse.

At the microphone of Olivier Delacroix for the free antenna, she gave herself up to a difficult situation: the obsession of her partner for her first love, which she discovered after three months of relationship.

Upset, she shared her experience with Europe 1.

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At the microphone of Olivier Delacroix that evening, Camille, in a relationship for three years with a man, explains that her spouse remains very attached to his first love, which puts their romantic relationship in danger.

If there's one thing you can't control, it's the feelings in a relationship.

Camille, a 26-year-old young Mancelle, paid the price.

At the microphone of the free antenna, she confided in her situation: that of a woman in love, whose love is thwarted by another: that of her partner for her first love.

"I met my boyfriend on the internet about three years ago and it was love at first sight on my side. He seemed like his too. And following that, I discovered after three months that he had not mourned his first love”, she begins.

"I totally understood his dismay"

Within her couple, Camille quickly had suspicions.

"I found him very distant with me," she explains.

"So I had the misfortune to look in his phone and I saw a lot of messages addressed to his first love."

Faced with fifty declarations of love, Camille is in shock.

She lets the night pass to calmly talk to him about it the next morning and then shows herself to be understanding.

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"I totally understood his dismay and in fact I put myself in his shoes and said to myself that even me, my poor little person, after three months, I was only ridiculous compared to the seven years past during which he experienced an ordeal", confides Camille.

Following their discussion, he decides to cut ties, in vain.

"Madame came back to him, understanding that he got rid of himself, promising him mountains and wonders," she adds, annoyed.

The difficulty of moving on...

But his partner resists.

While Camille whispers to him to go find her, he promises her that he is really in love with her and that his first love has finally become only a fantasy.

"I believed him."

Yet convinced by the sincerity of her husband, Camille however feels consumed by the situation.

"I took a lot on me to get him out of his wounds, to the point of forgetting me in the relationship. And the more time passed, the more hatred I felt," she says. .

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Despite the proofs of love, she can't manage to move on.

"He loves me, that's a fact, I never doubted it. But the fact that it's not her anymore and it's only me today, I've never felt it", s saddens the young woman.

The situation imprisons him, to the point of preventing him from projecting himself serenely and making his partner pay for it.

… And the impossibility of projecting oneself

"What scares me and what prevents me from moving forward is telling myself that if today he is ready, I don't have the certainty - and I never will have it - only in ten , 15 or 20 years old he will not find her”, reveals Camille.

And the trap of her thoughts closes in on her: the slightest insignificant or out-of-context detail will bring Camille back to this story and make her doubt the sincerity of her jules.

And she is aware of it.

"I would really like to move on, but between wanting and being able, there is a gap," she explains.

She is still considering a solution: couples therapy, for herself and her spouse.