Gauthier Delomez 6:30 p.m., August 18, 2022

As a couple, Cathy has forged a very close relationship with another man whom she considers to be her twin brother, and whom she was hosting in one of her apartments.

However, on the free antenna of Europe 1, she shares all her difficulties in separating from this person, who gets drunk and blackmails her.

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At the microphone of Sana Blanger that evening, Cathy explains that her relationship with a man she considers to be her twin brother was strained because of alcohol, and that she had to make him leave her apartment despite their deep attachment.

The first time kicked out of his Parisian apartment

"I just told someone I've been hosting for a long time to leave, and I asked him for his keys. This person is an ex from 2001-2002 who has become a friend over time. I I have an apartment in Paris, where I am most of the time with my spouse who owns another in Paris, and I am hosting this friend near Saint-Malo", confides the listener, who then calls from her Breton accommodation where she resides for seven months of the year.

"The big problem is that he's one of the people I love the most in the world. Already, it's complicated. But I can't stand the situation anymore because he's getting drunk. He Five years ago, he was with me in Paris, and I had already fired him. I have a friend who told him to come to Saint-Malo, and with whom I shared an apartment. I said yes, but it will be for a definite period.Things have made it impossible for me to tell him to leave.

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The friend I was with initially left, and I stayed with that person.

What is very complicated is that at the same time, when he is very good, we spend great times, we watch series... It's been 25 years of relationship, it's huge!

I consider him a twin brother.

Arguments that turned violent

There, we didn't even really argue more than usual or what.

It's just that he took my dogs out, and he wasn't answering the phone.

I knew very well that if he didn't answer me, it was a bad sign.

I texted him saying, 'You're really kidding me' basically, and at the same time he was coming in with the dogs.

I jumped on him to tell him 'It's good, it's starting to do well, I'm fed up, you could at least answer'.

I knew very well that he had gone out for an hour to go drink and suddenly I got angry.

I got violent, actually.

I went to him and told him to give me the keys, I bit his arm because he wouldn't give them to me.

Afterwards, he came back to me, he crushed my hand with the keys in it, and he said to me 'You and (his spouse), you got what you wanted'.

It's always blackmail.

Since he doesn't have an apartment, it's 'Yeah, I'm going to find myself outside...'.

He's really trying to make me feel guilty.

I really did everything I could.

I pay the rent, everything.

A terrible emotional loss

I have very few family.

He no longer has a family, and neither do I.

When he left Paris for two weeks, I had no news, and I couldn't take it anymore.

It was enough to mention his first name for me to start crying.

The concern is that tomorrow, if he tells me he's coming back, the difficulty will be to tell him no.

My problem is to keep what I just said because it's hard on different levels.

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On the one hand there is the affective, and on the other hand the material aspect because here (in Saint-Malo), I am much less independent given that I am visually impaired.

Besides here, I don't have any friends, and I have the impression that it's difficult to make friends near this city.

What's complicated is that there, right away, I know he has nowhere to go, that he's outside.

He has no income.

If I knew he had "everything", that he had found solutions, even if I no longer saw him, it would be hard.

But I would say to myself that after six months, a year, if one day he was treated... (...) I have been waiting for his electro-shock for a long time."