“LGBT representatives have a number of advantages there”: the father told why he does not give his daughter to a lesbian mother in Australia

For two weeks now, the father of an eight-year-old Russian woman has been forced to hide with her because of the decision of the Dzerzhinsky District Court of St. Petersburg.

According to him, the man had to send his daughter, a Russian citizen, to a lesbian mother in Australia.

Meanwhile, in Russia, a woman is accused of sexual acts against a girl.

Earlier, RT said that Eugene (name changed. -

) decided to limit his ex-wife Maria (name changed. - 

) in parental rights after the stories of his daughter Varya (name changed. - 

) that the mother and her partner touch her genitals, forced to watch shows with transgender people and transvestites, talk about the castration of men, and are also ordered to wear clothes without panties.

Having left Australia with the girl with the permission of the court, where they permanently resided, in November 2020, after the shocking stories of the child, Eugene decided not to return him to his ex-wife.

On September 3, 2021, the Dzerzhinsky District Court of St. Petersburg, referring to the Hague Convention on Child Abduction, ordered that the girl be returned to her mother immediately.

Evgeny failed to appeal this decision, even despite the criminal case initiated against Maria in January 2022.

A woman in Australia is suspected of sexual activity.

At the end of May 2022, a court in Vyborg arrested her in absentia.

However, due to a recent court decision, which Evgeny is not going to execute, he is still forced to hide.

RT spoke to the child's father.

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- No, absolutely not.

Frankly, the idea of ​​lesbianism has always been disgusting to her.

I think she was attracted to the fact that lesbianism and homosexuality have become a trend in Australia.

I believe that LGBT representatives have a number of advantages there in comparison with people of a traditional orientation.

Also in her case, an important factor was the fact that her future partner practically pursued her on the heels.

She was completely obsessed with her. 

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— Yes, being married to me, she was with two men, as far as I know.

I learned this from messages, photos and videos I found on our iPad, which was synced with her iPhone.

This and bills of $ 1 thousand per night in hotel rooms in which she stayed with her lovers.

The bills that she paid with our common money, putting the family in financial difficulties.

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“It made me finally cut off all ties with her.

Later I found out that they moved in together and became an official couple.

I couldn't believe it and at the same time it made me realize that they started their lesbian relationship in my house and in my bed.

On the eve of this, my ex-wife begged me to give "us" another chance - for the sake of our daughter, but Varya and I were again deceived.

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From the moment Varya was born, my ex-wife, in my opinion, experienced apathy towards her daughter.

She didn't even try to breastfeed her.

I felt trapped and burdened by motherhood and couldn't wait to get back to my old lifestyle.

Nightly formula feeds, diaper changes, play time, everything was left to me.

In rare cases, the daughter was in photographs with my ex, and even then only when the mother took a photo for her pages on social networks.

She often used our daughter in family quarrels, and sometimes attacked me with her fists even when the three of us were in a car and drove along the highway at high speed, and I was driving.

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“Honestly, I started to fear for Varya’s safety from her birth.

I am a calm and balanced person, and even in the most serious quarrels with my ex, I did not allow myself anything superfluous.

This drove her: not seeing the right reaction, she became aggressive and used physical force.

Sometimes she pulled out her own hair, just to get the reaction that would satisfy her.

And when that didn't work out, she took our sleeping daughter out of the crib and, holding her in her arms, started yelling at me.

Seeing the fear in the eyes of the child and her uncontrollable crying, I understood that my wife did not have any maternal instincts.

In those days, I would leave home, spend the night in some parking lot in my car.

I knew that if I was not at home, then she could not use our daughter as a weapon against me.

- And when the wife got together with her friend, what changed in her relationship with the child?

- After establishing her relationship with her partner, I became more and more worried about the constant unexplained rashes on my daughter's private parts and the fact that she began to tell me that the mother and her partner constantly touch her private parts and often tickle her there, despite to the fact that she constantly asks them not to do this.

I even have an audio recording and a video recording of her complaining to me and my mom about this and asking us to do something so that “mom and aunt…” stop doing it.

She was then four years old.

Prior to this, a photograph of my naked daughter and her (ex-wife. -

) naked partner in the bath was posted on Instagram *, and below it were dirty sexual comments written by the mother and her partner.

— Did you apply somewhere?

- With this information, I contacted the Australian police several times.

My daughter was interrogated, but they said "she's too small" and didn't take it seriously. 

Have you used the

— I sought help from a psychologist for my daughter in Australia.

There she had severe panic attacks every time she had to leave me and stay with her mother.

In Russia, I also continued to turn to a psychologist, because my daughter categorically refused to talk on the phone with her mother, and this was required by the court in Australia.

Despite the fact that it was unpleasant for her to relive, remembering the traumatic psychological and sexual impact on their part, during the session with the psychologist and later with the investigator, she said that she felt a sense of relief from the fact that, at least in Russia, she was heard and that she has a voice.

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“I doubt that she will try to do this, because there is an open criminal case against her and an arrest warrant.

- Now Varya communicates with her mother

— No, there is no contact between my daughter and her mother now.

Every time at the slightest mention of a phone call, Varya starts to get frightened and cry.

I used to send Maria video clips that I shot for Varya, but then my daughter asked me to stop sending this to my ex-wife.

She said, "I don't want you to send your mom any videos of me.

I don't want her to know anything about my life in Russia."

I still send her some pictures and messages about Varya's life and school achievements.

But I have to be careful because anything I do can be used against me in a court in Australia.

Why do

“I don't think she cares about Varya's fate and happiness.

For her, our daughter is property to which she is entitled, as well as to a cash allowance from the state for having her.

Her mentality is: the child is mine, and I will not let you have her, whether the child wants it or not, suffers, suffers or is unhappy.

Does the

— No, quite the opposite.

Every time something reminds her of her, Varya closes in and becomes extremely nervous.

She is constantly looking for confirmation from me that she will not have to return to Australia at all - and even more so to her mother.

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- The fact that a Russian court can make such a decision, despite irrefutable evidence against the mother, was a shock to me.

But given the way the judge behaved throughout the entire process — in my opinion, with blatant disregard for the Russian judicial system — in a sense, I was ready for anything.

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“I had to act quickly.

After hearing the judgment from my lawyer, and given the fact that I have to give up my daughter and hand her over within 48 hours without being able to appeal, I did what any adequate, decent parent would do - did everything in I do my best to keep my child safe.

I always tried to keep as calm as possible so as not to show my stress and not let her worry, all the time I tried to smile and hide my excitement.

But this time I had to be honest as I was in a hurry to pack our bags.

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What did you say to your daughter?

“I told Vara that we lost the case, but the battle is not yet lost, and we need to leave until we can appeal.

At first she was simply paralyzed with fear and asked me: “But why?

I thought we won!

But we are in Russia... we are Russians, how can that be?

Please daddy, I don't want to go back to Australia, I don't want to go back to my mom!

My life is here."

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- I think what she likes most about Russia is that she is so far away from her mother and Australia.

She likes that the Russian schools are more stimulating, that she is rewarded for her efforts, and not just for participation, as is the case in Australia.

She also believes that Russian children are much more developed, independent and intellectual.

She has a school friend with whom she constantly discusses politics.

Says, "Finally I have friends here that I can really talk to."

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- At first, when we first arrived in Russia, it was a little difficult, because my daughter had a fear of being alone in kindergarten without me: she was afraid that somehow her mother could come to kindergarten and take her away by force.

Therefore, I had to stay outside the door of her group's room in kindergarten for a month and a half, until she finally felt confident enough to stay there alone.

Luckily, the kindergarten staff were very understanding and she also developed a close relationship with the psychologist there.

The language barrier was quickly overcome.

Now she is one of the best students in her school class.

She received many diplomas, including at competitions in the Russian language, literature and mathematics.

She is looking forward to next year and is very happy that she has moved into the second grade.

Are

“Only a few teachers knew there, but after media coverage of our situation, many parents of children also became aware of it.

I have received many text messages of support from my parents and am very grateful to them for all their care and support.

My daughter, I can say, is a very friendly child: even her class teacher said that she attracts other children like a magnet.

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- Absolutely not.

Being Russian is something more than an inherited nationality.

To be Russian means to be spiritually self-conscious.

Australia is a great country for tourists to visit, but with constant life there is always a feeling of chronic intellectual and spiritual hunger. 

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As long as we continue to fight our battle to the bitter end.

I am thinking of creating a charitable organization where I can help highly qualified family people with similar views on the family and Christian traditions to move to Russia permanently.

The moral, ethical and spiritual values ​​of these people are akin to the values ​​of the Russian people and their culture.

But legal bureaucracy and paperwork can be quite difficult for them.

I think that the solution of these problems will be beneficial both for these families and for Russia itself.

Many people from Australia, Germany, France, Canada and the USA have already shown interest in moving here permanently.

What are 

She is interested in continuing her studies at the art school of the arts.

She has a lot of ideas that she would like to implement, and she has not quite decided what exactly she will do in the future.

However, in any case, she wants to stay in Russia.

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The biggest problem is the limited activities that my daughter and I could take part in.

And our beautiful kitty Bella is not with us.

My friend visits our house daily and feeds our cat.

We miss her very much.

However, despite the current situation, we try to make the most of it and just use this time to find new ways to have fun.

* Meta product, activity recognized as extremist, banned in Russia by decision of the Tverskoy Court of Moscow dated 03/21/2022.