"Dad said we would lose our virginity if we had tampons"

For several months, SVT has followed and met girls who grew up with honor-related oppression and violence.

Many of them tell how the control started already when they were small.

An image that is confirmed by researchers, police officers and teachers who work with honorable people.

Sisters Sasha and Sara tell how their little brother began to adopt the older family members' way of controlling female relatives.

The brothers' control started already when the boys were as young as three or four years old.

- Such a boy has been subjected to processes similar to brainwashing, "when you control your sister you do a good deed", says Devin Rexvid who researches honor-related violence and oppression at Stockholm University.