Since her son has new relationships, Hélène no longer recognizes him.

She worries about him, having discovered that he smokes cannabis and has started drinking.

On "La Libre antenna" of Europe 1, Hélène is worried about the fact that her son is hosted and fed free of charge by his friends.

TESTIMONY

Hélène is worried about new dating her 21-year-old son.

In no time, she saw her attitude change.

He began to drink and smoke cannabis.

He no longer lives with her, telling her to be fed and hosted for free by his friends.

Hélène does not manage to speak to him, fearing to annoy him and not to see him again.

At the microphone of "La Libre antenna", on Europe 1, Hélène confides above all fearing that her son is trafficking drugs.

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“Until recently, my 21-year-old son lived at home. He studies. He met some friends and changed his attitude completely. I hardly see him anymore. When he comes to see me, he stays five or ten minutes, then leaves. I'm worried because I know he smokes drugs. Before, he didn't smoke. I also know that he drinks, when he didn't drink. He's supposedly roommates with friends who host and feed him for free, that sounds weird to me. 

I see him change and I can't speak to him.

He's very nice, so when I ask him if he's okay, he always says 'yes'.

If I ask him if he has any problems, he tells me not to worry.

I do not know what to do.

My oldest daughter has always looked after him.

She noticed that he had completely changed.

For my birthday, they surprised me to come and eat at the house together.

My daughter then told me that she had hardly spoken to her brother. 

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I see it changing, but not in a good way

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I'm afraid of his bad company.

He doesn't want me to know his friends.

I told him he could at least give me the first name and phone number of one of his friends in case there was a problem.

Even that, he doesn't want to.

I feel helpless because I see it changing, but not in a good way.

He is dressed in jogging from head to toe.

These are his friends who lend him these clothes.

Seems weird to me.

He studies management.

He's in his second year.

He announced to me that he wanted to continue his license in Lyon.

It reassures me a little because it would make him leave the people he sees now.

He used to hang out with other people.

Then he met these young people.

Initially, it was for the smoke.

He's got it on him.

My daughter is a police officer, she can tell if he has drugs in her bag.

Sometimes his eyes are completely blown up.

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I try not to point him too hard because I'm afraid he won't come to see me anymore

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I can not approach it, yet it is a bit my favorite.

He's a nice boy.

Sometimes, when he comes to see me, he takes down my trash.

He still has little moments when he takes care of me.

He has no money, but for my birthday he gave me a beautiful orchid.

I don't know where he got the money from, since he doesn't work.

My fear is that he

deals

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Even his way of speaking has changed.

He gets angry pretty quickly, whereas he doesn't get angry.

It changed dramatically in the space of two or three months.

When he comes to see me, the curfew is over.

He doesn't care a bit.

He comes to see me very rarely.

It is I who ask him to come by.

When he comes, his friends are waiting for him downstairs in the car.

I'm glad to see him, so I try not to point him too hard because I'm afraid he won't come to see me again. 

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Her father and I are divorced.

His father doesn't take care of him at all.

My daughter was taking care of her brother, but she is angry because he smokes.

They were, however, very close.

The problem is, my daughter is blunt.

My son can't stand being told things.

If we put barriers on him, he runs away.

My daughter tried to talk to her about drugs, but it ended badly.

They didn't speak to each other for a while, although they get along well.

They have a real bond. "