Understanding the personality and desires of children and adolescents is one of the most complex matters, not only for mothers but also for the teenagers themselves. They may want to achieve many things but do not know how and where to start.
Adolescence is one of the most stressful periods for the family, but it is also stressful for the teenager himself, as he lives in a state of struggle to explore and understand himself and is in a state of constant search for his interests and what pleases him.
With simple guidance from the family and narrowing of the tremendous possibilities offered from the outside, the adolescent’s diaspora period can be reduced to less time and head to construction directly through the identification of his features.
Psychologist and personality patterns researcher Mears Bergs provides a composite guide to know what is the personality style of a child or adolescent, and then he can guide him to what he likes or how to reach his desires through his personality pattern, through a group of contrasting characteristics, the weight of the mind (T) versus the emotion ( F), social (E) versus introvertedness (I), intuition (N) versus observation (S), and judgment (J) versus perception (P).
A pattern of 16 basic patterns can be revealed and refined later, as people who write with the left hand can use the right hand in many things, as well as a person whose mind is weighted against his affection, he uses his affection in some situations, for example, and mothers can through observation know the personal characteristic of their child, Thus directing his needs in a manner that suits his identical personal identity.
Mind-weighting (T) versus emotion (F)
This measure focuses on how to make decisions on an emotional basis or in a rational and objective manner. Does it tend to be consistent with logic or that emotions are the only controlling conclusion?
Social (E) versus introverted (I)
This division is a common occurrence, but in the classification of Bergs this is different. Socialists (E) tend to open up and open to new societies on a regular basis, this provides them with a sense of energy and renewal, while introverts have the ability to integrate with other societies, but that does not provide them with a sense of energy.
Intuition (N) versus observation (S)
This classification is divided between the quick-witted, and it refers to the person who observes and analyzes things based on his observations, and people with quick-wittedness tend to pay attention to impressions and patterns, imagine the future and enjoy thinking about possibilities and the consequences of them, while people who tend to facts and study, they depend on focusing on evidence, details and enjoyment With practical experience.
A judgmental person tends to make firm decisions and judgments regardless of the consequences that he faces (networking sites)
Judgment (J) versus perception (P)
Judgmental people tend to make firm decisions and judgments regardless of the consequences they face, while perception tends to be more flexible, adaptable and open.
The wit with the weighting of the mind produces analysts
When combining the mind-weighting trait with intuition, basic features related to imagination, thinking and strategy are produced. The owner of these traits is a person who loves to plan everything, which stimulates him to invent, innovate and search for knowledge, and usually tend to lead and innovate, and of course these people have the ability to debate and think, Whether they are in their teens or childhood, they are people whose characteristics must be respected.
Cunning with passion produces diplomats
The presence of feelings with intuition in the person himself, produces calm, inspiring and ideal personality traits with altruistic nature and popular charisma, and can use synonyms very well regardless of actions, and they are very enthusiastic and optimistic personalities, these qualities in children and adolescents make punishment difficult because of their ability to persuade and rhetoric However, attention must be paid to the positive side of these personality traits and strengthened in various forms, such as courses in theatrical art, reading the novel, and learning public speaking.
When the mind-weighting trait is combined with intuition, it produces traits related to imagination, thinking, and strategy (networking sites)
Sentinels and Explorers
All the holders of the attributes of observation, whether with rational or emotional, share many qualities. Some of them are practical and realistic individuals, especially those who are involved. As for the socialists, they have high leadership qualities and good popularity in their societies.
Explorers are those who carry the qualities of observation with emotional and high awareness, and these love to experiment and explore, and scientific and artistic activities are very ideal for them.
And a large part of these people do not feel bored with them, because they are a constant flame of enthusiasm, and they are also a torch of energy that must be used in organizing its time through various activities, to avoid the leisure time that afflicts them with great frustration.