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Love is never told.
It is one of the most exciting topics - poets, painters, musicians, all of whom have been dealing with the feeling that triggers palpitations for centuries.
Moderator Janin Ullmann would also like to know more precisely whether the durability of a relationship can be foreseen, whether eternal love really exists and what you have to do for it.
In the two-part documentary series "How long is forever?" On ZDFneo (from February 11, 8:15 pm) she investigates these questions.
The 39-year-old speaks to five couples about their relationships, struggles and everyday life.
Experts and scientists also have their say, classify the various relationship models and explain the complex properties of love.
Janin Ullmann herself had a long relationship with actor Kostja Ullmann.
They were together for twelve years, two of which were married.
In December 2018, the two announced their separation on Instagram with a kiss photo and wrote: “People, we broke up.
We can handle it, hopefully you too. "
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A shock for many of their fans, after all, the two were considered one of the dream couples from the film and television world.
They kept their private life out of the public eye as much as possible all these years.
Janin Ullmann doesn't want to say much about it either, but the two still seem to respect each other.
It's nice to hear when she emphasizes: "Love is something I want to believe in and hold on to."
Actor Kostja Ullmann lived in a relationship with Janin Ullmann for twelve years - they were considered a dream couple
Source: Jürgen Joost
During the separation phase and the time afterwards, she dealt intensively with the question of what love and relationship actually mean and how she would like to shape them.
That is also one of the reasons why she found the documentary format exciting from the start.
“I was mainly interested in how we find each other.
Is that 'falling in love' in our genes? ”Asks the presenter, who was one of the most famous faces on the Viva music channel in the 2000s.
She finds processes that run subconsciously when getting to know each other and first falling in love particularly exciting.
“The first kiss is like a taste test, if it doesn't tingle, no further dates are useful.
Our body gives us a strong signal. ”In addition, attractiveness and smell naturally also play a role.
“We all have a level of attractiveness that we classify ourselves into.
We then unconsciously look for people who fit our subjective level.
So the appearance plays an important role, even if it would be more likable to say: It only depends on the character. "
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She herself finds it important in a relationship to deal with the partner, to communicate, to be able to endure friction and to be honest with one another: "It's not about living in a pink and red Hollywood cliché." Above all, he gains one insight: "The person you will always be with is yourself." Therefore, it is important to have a healthy relationship with yourself and to love yourself and not to look for happiness in a partner.
Janin Ullmann knows that this is easy to say and that it means strenuous work.
She leaves it open whether there will be a new man at her side soon, but reveals: "I want to believe in one 'forever', but I already know that there will be several forever in my life." The memories to the people ultimately persist.
The presenter remembers her first kiss at school at a holiday camp.
“We played marriages back then.
Then I kissed Jens or he kissed me. ”It was a terrible moment, she says with a laugh.
But a moment that has remained forever - thanks in part to the recording with a video camera.
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Source: Welt am Sonntag