Tuesday in "Sans Rendez-vous", the sexologist and psychoanalyst Catherine Blanc tries to clarify the famous mystery of the G-spot in women, recalling that its name comes from a German doctor, Ernest Gräfenberg, who has done research on the sexuality and female pleasure.
It is a big question that many people ask themselves and which, it seems, does not have a ready-made answer. Tuesday, in the show "Sans Rendez-vous", presented by Mélanie Gomez and Jimmy Mohamed, the sex therapist and psychoanalyst Catherine Blanc tries to answer the questions that revolve around the famous G-spot in women, which would be the trigger for orgasm ultimate. Where is he from ? Does it really exist? Where is he ? How to find him? How to stimulate it?
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What is point G?
"First, you have to understand that it comes from Ernest Gräfenberg, a German doctor who has done research on lots of subjects, independently of the subject of sexuality and in particular about female sexuality and female pleasure. was mainly interested in the urethra of women and it was during his research that he revealed sensitivities in certain areas, not necessarily what we now call the G-spot The idea was for example to look at a texture that could be found a little more granular at the ventral base of the vagina at the entrance to the vagina. And it was not until much later, in 1980, that 'we talked about point G in reference to his research.
But then, does the point G exist or not?
We must no longer understand G as Grail, that is to say with a very relative accessibility.
It's a bit sad, because as we called this G spot in honor of Gräfenberg.
And we have completely denied all of his research, while he opposed Freud's discourse that wanted a woman who was not vaginal to be inherently frigid.
According to Gräfenberg, on the contrary, women have lots of erogenous zones that need to be aroused and stimulated.
Not just a point, precisely.
So to reduce female pleasure to one point is to betray the words of this man.
It is observed that all women do not have the same area in anatomical terms.
Sometimes granular, thick, it would be 1 cm thick and located in the ventral wall of the vagina.
To stimulate it, you think you should touch it.
Some gynecologists, moreover, reinforce it with injections of hyaluronic acid to make it plumper in some ways, more accessible.
But once again, let's not forget that pleasure is not just a story of the trigger, but of his psychic abilities to be able to have fun.
Some people like to have their hair stroked, others would be allergic, there are people who like to have their hair pulled because it stimulates the scalp and others do not like it at all.
So what needs to be understood is that not everyone likes to be hit the same way, both men and women.
There are men who like masturbation to be very gentle, very slow, others extremely fast, even strong.
So we can define external and internal areas, such as the clitoris, the vagina, the entrance to the vagina, the vulva, the depth of the vagina, at the level of the cervix, areas that it is necessary to touch but without obsessions on a zone, rather by playing and seeing it react.
But to tickle her, you must already be listening to the woman with whom you make love.
Is there a position that can better stimulate this G zone?
Insofar as this zone is on the ventral part, that a penis has a priori inclination towards the belly during the erection, one can consider that all the positions where the erection of the man will stimulate the ventral part will more stimulate the desired area.
So, all the positions where we are facing. "