He asserted that couples derive their culture from unrealistic drama

President of the Personal Status Court: “Social communication” sometimes leads to divorce

  • Counselor Khaled Al Hosani: "Social media has turned into a source of culture instead of sincere advice from parents."

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The President of the Personal Status Court in Dubai, Counselor Khaled Al Hosani, confirmed that the exposure of families to social media, and the publication of every small and big thing about the activities of the spouses, caused many marital disputes and divorce, as it creates a kind of jealousy and a desire to imitate others blindly without looking at What often appears on social media is just a representation, and only shows the bright side of the relationship of people who publish photos of their travels, travels and places of their destination, while they do not reveal the details of the difficult times that all couples go through.

Al Hosani said in an interview with Emirates Today that many new husbands derive their cultures from drama and fake content on social media, and they do not have a real awareness of the reality of marriage, and the rights and duties necessary for each party, so they imagine that the whole life is traveling, going out and shopping, and then they collide with a reality. Different people are not qualified for him, so disagreement and divorce occur.

In detail, Counselor Khaled Al Hosani mentioned that social media has become a major factor in many family disputes, as it has turned into a source of culture instead of sincere advice from parents, and it has also become a front to display the details and peculiarities of marital life, so you find the two spouses go out together, each holding his phone. Either he is busy browsing his content or transmitting what is happening to his followers on social networks.

He added that one of the negative aspects of this openness is the presentation of personal problems on communication accounts, so the wife tells her problems with her husband, even if in general, without direct reference to him, so one of them participates in an offensive comment to him, so that the dispute escalates and turns into a real break that usually ends in divorce.

Al Hosani pointed out that the court notes that in many cases, new husbands are affected by what they see from the experiences of others, whether in drama, especially Turkish, or some social media influencers, who offer marriage as if it is a continuous honeymoon, so new husbands think that marriage is a Travel, gifts and cars, and jealousy takes root in the souls, and feelings transform, because the woman thinks that her husband is stingy in his feelings and spending on them, in contrast to the romantic model that you see in drama or the means of communication, while the man believes that his wife is not good at taking care of herself and does not give him what deserves the attention.

He explained that people who intentionally publish the details of their marital relationship and the moments of overwhelming happiness between them on social networks often hide a more unhappy side, and this is what young husbands do not realize when you ask someone: “Why did you get married?”, He is unable to answer because they do not realize the duties of this relationship and the consequences of it. From a commitment to the other party and their children.

Al Hosani stressed that this is a difficult problem and must be paid attention to, so that things do not get worse in the future in light of the unification of children with their tablets and electronic games, until they become isolated from their siblings themselves, pointing out that it is easy to imagine the future of a child who has no real human experiences when he gets married. .

He explained that, in view of several family problems that the court dealt with, many new husbands derive their experiences from "Instagram" and "Snapchat", and there are no real human experiences based on natural contact with others.

He stated that one of the negatives associated with the inherent use of social media in marital life is resolving disputes through text chatting through the application of "WhatsApp" or other, stressing that this often fuels disputes, because it increases the chances of misunderstanding words in light of lack of eye contact and reading body language. And reduce the intensity of the discussion, as it is easy to insult a person from a distance, while a person often withdraws from that when confronting the other party.

An important life experience

The President of the Personal Status Court in Dubai, Counselor Khaled Al Hosani, affirmed that he is against total distance education, and he wishes students to return to schools as soon as possible, because traditional education is not just an academic achievement, but rather represents an important life experience that forces the child to have contact with his peers and build his personality And refine his skills in negotiation and coexistence.

He pointed out that people are born of accumulations that start from childhood, by interacting with family members, friends and classmates.

Social experiences

The President of the Personal Status Court in Dubai, Counselor Khaled Al Hosani, stated that the new generations may be more educated and educated, but they are less experienced with social experiences, and do not have the awareness and awareness necessary to manage a marital life based on dialogue, understanding and compromise sometimes, so you find both spouses clinging to his position when it occurs The dispute and insists on meeting his demands, because they have not tried negotiation before, and they do not have sufficient life experience, but both of them do not care about the reaction of the other, as long as he has his phone and his account on the means of communication that he sings about the other.

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