This man says he loves her, but leaves her without news and keeps disappearing

TESTIMONY

Marine met a man almost a year ago.

They dated a few times last October.

On numerous occasions, this man has made declarations of love to her by telephone and by text.

But as soon as Marine gave him an appointment, he did not come and left her without news.

From now on, Marine no longer responds to this man who continues to write to her.

At the microphone of "La Libre antenna", on Europe 1, Marine wonders about this man who says he loves her, but constantly disappears.

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"I'm 65. I divorced eight years ago. My husband left. It was very difficult for me. I almost lost my life. My health took a hit. allowed to bounce back. Now I only see the positive side of life. I put aside my sentimental life. When you are cheated, it is very difficult to regain self-confidence and to have confidence in someone else I'm very happy in my life I don't suffer from loneliness, but last year I was thinking I was ready to meet someone. 

Two days after making this wish, I was in a store and a man came up to me.

He wanted us to have a coffee.

I ended up accepting.

I felt like I had found an old friend.

We exchanged our phone numbers.

Fifteen days later, I went to his place.

He had to have an operation.

I am a Reiki master, I have magnetized it.

He was hospitalized.

I have heard from him.

We had friendly exchanges.

Along the way, following the massages I was giving him, he gave me a kiss in October, last year.

It was very gentle and respectful. 

How can you care about someone when you don't know each other?

At the end of the year, every time I invited him, he didn't come.

I gave up.

On January 1, he sent me a love message, telling me that he loved me, that he wanted to know me better and that he wanted to see me in the afternoon.

I accepted.

I waited for him.

He did not come.

The following month, he sends me back a message telling me the same thing.

How can you care about someone when you don't really know each other?

At the end of January, I sent him a message to tell him that I had broken a rib.

No news.

I tell her that I have lost a friend from Covid.

No news.

I delete his number.

During confinement, he calls me one evening.

He tells me he cares about me, misses me.

I tell him I'll contact him when I get home.

I go home.

No news.

On May 1st, he sends me a message telling me that he wants to live with me, that I am the woman of his life, that he can't stop thinking about me.

I call him, he doesn't answer. 

Am I dealing with a narcissistic pervert?

It scared me that he would tell me all this.

I would like to have someone, but I am very independent.

At the same time, I liked him, so I was torn.

I told him I didn't have time to waste since we couldn't see each other.

He left me alone.

In July, he told me the same thing.

I suggest that she go eat at a restaurant.

I wait.

No one.

I didn't even send a message.

Am I dealing with a narcissistic pervert?

I called him and asked him how he could write me so many things when we haven't seen each other since October.

I told him that he should consult someone, because his attitude is not normal.

He got angry and said to me: "I am under your control, I love you".

He got angry and I can't stand people who talk loudly.

Two days ago he wrote to me: "I wake up, I think of you, you do not leave my mind. I am filled with feelings for you." 

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I don't answer him now.

I think he is ill.

I don't want to have fun, I want to be with someone I trust.

I told him that I didn't necessarily want to commit, and that before opening my heart to someone, I wanted to know who I was dealing with.

I have suffered enough like that.

I don't hope for anything anymore.

He's not someone I can trust.

I want to help this man more.

It is in my character to help others. "