Then you talk about sex with your teen

-It is important to think about whether you are aware of this.

Because a lot has happened since you went to sex education yourself.

It can be good to find out pure facts - what contraceptives are available, how big the clitoris is and other things that you may not have learned yourself, says Tanja Suhinina.

When it comes to recent discussions about violent sex, and how to address it with her teenager, she emphasizes how important it is for young people to have someone to turn to if they do not want to talk to their parents.

-You get to understand that they may not want to tell you things.

So it is important to make sure that there are other adults or other sources that your children can turn to.

In the video, Tanja Suhinina gives tips on what to do, and not to do, when talking about sex with your children.