Including gifts after the quarrel .. Signs that the romantic relationship between the spouses is unhealthy

Some believe that chatting and spending free time with a partner is beneficial for relationships, but according to psychologists there is a fine line between natural behavior and repulsive behavior within a relationship, as the former contributes to building relationships, while the second type hurts and destroys it.

The psychological specialist and marriage expert Laura Dabni explains that there is behavior that may seem pleasant and romantic at the beginning of the relationship, but it turns into annoying, for example, the person seems to control his partner at first glance as if he was an attempt to take care of him, in the beginning the partner enjoys the way of caring for him and the desire of the other party to know his whereabouts The destination and seize the opportunities to meet him, but at some point these romantic gestures may become frightening.

American relations expert David Bennett notes that attractive behavior is often very similar to repulsive behavior, as there is a very thin line between the two, so some romantic gestures may harm the relationship.

In a report published by the Russian "FB Rey" website, writer Violeta Perezina reviewed the romantic signs that confirm the relationship is unhealthy.

Giving gifts after quarreling
A dispute or quarrel between the spouses is a natural and sometimes beneficial relationship.

On the other hand, the issue of how to resolve and overcome this dispute remains the key to a successful relationship.

Adina Makhali, a certified relationship expert, believes that "using gifts to overcome communication difficulties leads to an unhealthy resolution of disputes, which would damage the relationship."

On the other hand, gifts can help in some situations, such as offering to express your love for the other person.

Do everything with or for the partner
Spending the entire time with the partner is a good thing in the beginning of the relationship. On the other hand, stopping that and giving up on favorite hobbies is likely to cause problems in the future, and one might end up not knowing himself and the things he loves, as well as being overly dependent on a partner who will not feel happy in his absence.

Unexpected return
Relationship expert Mary J. Gibson stated that some people want to spend time alone, and the occasional appearance of the partner is annoying and unpleasant for some, so even if the partner does not hide bad intentions and only wants to check on the other side, the unexpected visit may lead to a feeling The other party indirectly invaded his partner.

Excessive protection
In fact, there is nothing wrong with protecting the partner, as the lover always seeks to prove the fact that he is supportive and supportive of his life partner at all times and conditions, but according to Gibson this is likely to negatively affect the relationship at a later time if the partner begins trying to hide his soul mate from Others, and designate places to be visited and places that are advisable not to approach them.

The dominant party should realize that it is a partner and not the guardian of the other party who does not really need protection from the rest of the world, just as it is natural to provide support from time to time and protect the other party instead of directing and controlling it.

Be a therapist for your partner
Everyone is nervous, which makes them need to talk to someone close to relieve it, and certified trainer Diana Finconite believes that there is nothing wrong with the partner being listening to the other side.

On the other hand, it becomes a problem when he strives to become the only savior for his partner's exit from his crises and his deteriorating psychological state.

In this context, it is important to create emotional boundaries, not to deal with partner problems and consider them your own, and only to listen and support the partner.

Say the word "I love you" early
A person's expression of his love for the other person before an important stride in the relationship appears and before it becomes formal is something that some people do not like.

In this context, Christine Scott Hudson, the psychologist and owner of the "Creative Life Live Studio", said that "early recognition of love is in most cases a means of manipulation called the bombing of love."

And if someone tries to act in this way, he will immediately start acting as an ideal romantic partner by praising the other party whenever he has the opportunity, and expressing his love by doing some romantic things.

Despite the kindness of these behaviors, they reflect the superficiality of its perpetrator, who does not want to waste time getting to know the other side better, and present himself as he is.

From this standpoint, it is difficult to establish a permanent relationship with a person of this type, as it requires a reasonable evaluation of the situation and progress in the relationship step by step.