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To please the other, men and women sometimes simulate orgasm. Thursday , in "Without Rendez-Vous" on Europe 1, the psychoanalyst and sexologist Catherine White delivers his analysis on this question: to pretend, is it to betray his partner?
The question of Ludivine, 38
I am in a relationship for 10 years, and if my sexuality is nice, I do not have the peaks of pleasure that expects my companion, so I use simulation not to worry. According to my friends, I build my relationship on a lie ... Am I betraying it by pretending?
Catherine Blanc's answer
"It's quite touching because she is so in need to please and translate her love that she needs to show him that he is beautiful, tall, strong ... There are pleasures before orgasm This is not a forced passage or an easy access passage, simulation is not a betrayal, it is to encourage, translate or indicate the direction to go. the power to simulate, it ends up acting in function and no longer being able to receive and enjoy.
Can a man realize it? No, to the extent that women do it with tenderness and with all the artifices expected by the man. This is the problem: the man waits so much that a woman shouts or has sighs and 'still' ... It is very motivating. We can not blame the man who is all to his pleasure. If he were looking for where the fault is, the man would not be to his pleasure himself.
We must try to free the word in the couple or consult to try to understand why everything is in the direction of the pleasure and the masculine desire.