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This is a thorny question for those who want to give pleasure to their partner: what position should be adopted during love? Must we necessarily change it during the act? On Thursday, in Sans rendez-vous, the Europe health show 1, the psychoanalyst and sexologist Catherine Blanc explains the role of positions in the search for pleasure in a woman.
The question of Jérémy, 24 years old
"What are the positions that allow the woman to have the most pleasure?"
The advice of Catherine Blanc, psychoanalyst
"This question is delicious because obviously it tells more about Jeremy's concern about what he must do to be recognized, so that the girlfriend with whom he made love would reoffend or put him in the 'top five' It's less concerned for her than it is concerned about him and his concern about his own performance, but it's human and particularly masculine, since men like the idea of how it works. and you can not blame them, because you have to understand that it's not at all scornful because men have a habit of knowing how it works for them, because their sex is outside and they have taken the habit of manipulating, knowing how to get it to one point or another, while the female sex is a huge mystery to the woman herself, so think for men! "
Are there not some positions that can help achieve orgasm?
"All positions can do it, it depends on what we're talking about, if we're talking about the fantasy that's going to be the source of a woman's very strong excitement, it's going to depend on what's in her head." will rather like the positions where she is perhaps less engaged, such as the position of the missionary, etc., because she will be able to let go and welcome.This reassures her so it allows him to go more naturally to pleasure.
On the contrary, she may feel that it is rather when she does not see what is happening, to be in her head and not polluted by the eyes of the other, so rather of back, that she takes more of pleasure. If we rely more on physiology, since that is the question, it is fundamentally what will solicit its most sensitive nerve endings. If it is a woman who has more difficulty in welcoming the interiority of her sex in her vagina, she will rather like what will rub the clitoris, so the glans of the clitoris. On the contrary, it may prefer a deeper penetration which, moreover, will also solicit the cervix. At that time, it will be rather positions like the position of Andromache or Venus, those where the woman sits on the man whether he is sitting himself or lying down.
She will be able to control his way to come to rest on this penis and rub against this penis. Depending on whether she prefers external stimulation or inner stimulation, she will choose positions that will solicit parts of her sex. That the man proposes positions, yes, but that he is attentive to how she will move, how she will move herself to shake a little the idea of male departure, in order to reach what she feels intuitively being on appeal in her body. "
Should a woman who has no pleasure during sex have to change positions?
"She can try, of course, the man does not have to do all the positions of Kamasutra.This may be a solution if only for the pleasure of the body: after a while, we are tired of to be in a position, to be in a hurry, to be compressed, one needs more freedom, it is not for the man to act exclusively, he has everything to gain from being accompanied as in a dance by the movements of his companion. "