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They have existed for a long time, but in recent years, sextoys have become democratized. Tuesday, in Sans Rendez-vous , the health show of Europe 1, psychoanalyst and sexologist Catherine Blanc tells us about these sex toys that can vary the pleasures.
Can we offer a sextoy to his partner?
Sexuality is a very individual story. We build it all with our imagination and everything does not move us. Providing a sextoy to his partner is fun when there have been exchanges beforehand, otherwise it can be awkward because, depending on the circumstances, it can speak of something other than love. It can refer to desire. For example, if a woman is reluctant to make love or is struggling to be available, she may hear this not as a gift for her, but as a gift for her spouse to whom she has to answer.
Does playing with your partner necessarily mean using a sextoy?
We can play without using sex toys. To play is to leave the representation in which one freezes. In sexuality, the best way to flourish is to get rid of our personality in the literal sense of the term, to bring down its mask. To play is to give oneself the right to other positions on ourselves.
What is the simplest sextoy to use when you want to start?
There is no instructions for use, neither in sextoys, nor in sexuality. The appropriate sextoy is the one that suits both partners. For one, it can be a feather to caress and make the skins shudder, for another a vibrating intergalactic object, massaging, huge size. It's a very personal story.
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