"17 fractures, more than 200 stitches, and multiple surgeries, everything that doesn't kill me will make me stronger." Recently, the topic of "Thailand fell off a cliff pregnant woman stood up after 3 years" was on the hot search, and the recovery process disclosed by the party was tearful, but her experience also inspired many netizens in adversity.

On June 2019, 6, Wang Nuannuan, who was pregnant, and her husband Yu Moudong went to PhaDaem National Park in Ubon Ratchathani Province, Thailand. During the play, Wang Nuannuan was pushed off a 9-meter-high cliff by Yu Moudong. After falling to the bottom of the cliff, Wang Nuannuan suffered 34 fractures and bleeding from her body, and was found by well-wishers and sent to the hospital. A week after the incident, after determining that she was protected and Yu was not present, Wang Nuannuan reported the case to the Thai police. Subsequently, the Thai police arrested Yu in the hospital and charged him with attempted murder.

Wang Nuannuan told the Beiqing News reporter that at the moment of falling off the cliff, her life entered the darkest moment, after being betrayed and murdered by her lover, she lost the child and health in her womb, her small family was gone, and her originally successful career was also destroyed, "My life has become a ruin, more terrible than nothing." What awaited her were surgery after surgery and lengthy rights lawsuits.

Ms. Wang said she had multiple surgeries over a period of more than a year and urinated in bed every day. At the hardest time, she collapsed several times a day, and sometimes it was just a "sit up at the bed" movement that made her collapse. "It may not only be the fact that you can't stand up, all the hurt and the past are coming, there is no way, just cry, cry and continue to live after crying."

Since the case, Wang Nuannuan has undergone 8 surgeries. As her mood stabilized and her body improved, she broke down less frequently. In 2021, she tried to rebuild her career and run new media, but because she lacked energy, she had to focus on rehabilitation again. After a full year of recovery in 2022, with surgery, medicine and other treatments, she finally got back on her feet around the Spring Festival in 2023. "In fact, it was possible to get up earlier, but it was pointless to stand up if I couldn't walk, and some time ago, I really stood up." Now, Wang Nuannuan may not cry once in a month or two.

Wang Nuannuan, who has regained her feet, has passed the darkest moment of her life, but the matter of being pushed off the cliff by her husband is not over in her life. In March 2020, Yu was sentenced to life imprisonment by a Thai court in the first instance. Another 3 months later, in 13, the court of second instance of the case held that the defendant Yu Moudong did not constitute the crime of intentional homicide and was an attempt to commit intentional homicide, and commuted his sentence to ten years in prison. Wang Nuannuan appealed against the second-instance judgment, and the case is still under appeal and there has been no new progress.

Wang Nuannuan said that she and Yu Moudong obtained the certificate in China, and the two are still in a marriage relationship. It is necessary to wait for the final result of the criminal trial in Thailand to divorce through litigation in China, and then file a civil lawsuit against Yu Moudong to claim compensation, leaving aside the medical expenses for her 8 surgeries and rehabilitation treatment before and after, it cost one or two million yuan just to litigate in Thailand, hire a lawyer, and ask someone to translate relevant materials.

dialogue

Always looking for the kind people who found me at the bottom of the cliff

Still believe in love and marriage

Beiqing News: How did you survive these three years?

Wang Nuannuan: That incident (being pushed off a cliff by my husband) destroyed my world, my lover betrayed me, my family, children, health, future planning were gone, my career was also destroyed, and my whole life went into ruins. It turns out that I am also a small achievement, a decent person, and every day in bed size is something I can't experience. But encountered, there is no way, you have to bow to life, there is no second option. My parents are older, and now they can help me, but when they get older, will they help me or I help them, or will we all lie in bed and look at each other? How can this not happen? So it's just me getting better.

Beiqing News: After Yu Moudong was arrested, have you ever seen him again?

Wang Nuannuan: I saw it during the trial, but I was isolated and couldn't communicate. It was true to love him at first, and it was also true to hate him after that happened. Hatred for him is not going away.

Beijing Youth News: Do you still believe in love and marriage?

Wang Nuannuan: I believe it. Marriage is beautiful, love is also beautiful, but he has problems with this person, he cannot represent marriage and love. I still believe in love, but I will admit that I have made mistakes - my flash marriage with him is extremely risky, and not having enough investigation of the other party is my negligence, and I have not done my homework. I hope you can learn from me, to marry a person or should get along longer, let parents and family check more, you can also properly investigate through formal means whether the other party has been involved in some criminal cases and civil cases, whether there are arrears, etc., these are things I have not done, I hope you can know and effectively protect yourself.

Give up and I'm sorry for the second life

Beiqing News: After being pushed off the cliff by him, have you ever despaired at the bottom of the cliff? Did you think about giving up later in the course of treatment?

Wang Nuannuan: Definitely desperate. There was no one over there, I had 17 fractures, I knew I was bleeding, and if no one showed up, I really had to wait for death. After being sent to the hospital, the place where the accident occurred was on the border of Thailand, the medical level was limited, the operation done for me by the hospital there was mainly life-saving, but limited by the medical level, the bone was broken and could not be connected, some treatment plans were not quite right, after returning to China, I could only do surgery again, just like that, I did 3 operations in more than 8 years.

I've also thought about giving up countless times, but when I think about it, I can't give up. Even if it may be rotten for a few hours, half a day or a few days, press the pause button for yourself to digest bad emotions, put away the tears after digestion, grit your teeth and set off to a better self, you have to eat the bitterness you should eat, otherwise you have to eat and drink Lasa all the time, and always use a wheelchair.

Beijing Youth News: You said in your video sharing that the first time you created a miracle was to survive at the bottom of the cliff, the second time was to stand up, the first miracle may be lucky, and the second time is by what?

Wang Nuannuan: Maybe it's tough. My character itself is relatively tough, and I can endure hardships. I didn't fall to my death after falling from about 13 floors, and if I gave up because I was too bitter, I don't think I should and I'm sorry for my second life. In fact, at that time, I found my kind person at the bottom of the cliff, I have been searching, through various means, but I have not found it so far, if I go to Ubon Ratchathani Province in Thailand, I want to look for it again.

Hope inspires those who are lost in adversity

Beijing Youth News: What is the difference between lawsuits in Thailand and in China?

Wang Nuannuan: This kind of criminal case in China is a one-stop prosecution of the public prosecution law, and you don't have to worry about investigating and collecting evidence, but the Thai side needs the parties themselves to assert, which is a time-consuming and energy-consuming process. To collect materials by yourself, the materials submitted to the court must also be translated by professional people, and the translation fee of the materials alone costs 600 yuan per page, and the materials we have prepared are piled up. Hiring a lawyer also requires money, and each time you go to the court to submit materials, you must bear the accommodation and air ticket expenses.

Even if I file a civil lawsuit later, Yu Moudong may not have money to pay after the judgment, and he only has debts in his name, but I still have to exercise my rights and sue for claims. Only when these lawsuits are fought will this matter be over.

Beijing Youth News: A few days ago, you shared a video of "standing up" on the Internet, nearly 100,000 netizens liked it, have you read the comments of netizens?

Wang Nuannuan: Of course, I read it, and some of them also replied. Some netizens may have fractures caused by accidents, some are not developing well in their careers now, some are family problems, in short, they are in adversity, and they are more at a loss, they have seen my experience and think that I am more difficult than them, but I did not bow my head, they were also encouraged. I am more impressed by this kind of message, I will reply to them and encourage them, which is also my original intention to post my experience.

This group of texts/reporter Dai Youqing

Coordinator/Jiang Shuo Photo courtesy/interviewee