"Caring for Children Living in the Internet Age" Series 2
Isn't "Yayan" more beautiful than "Internet popular memes"?
More than 95% of parents do not support their children saying "bad terriers" Call on platforms not to let "vulgar terriers" pass the trial
Yesterday, the Japanese newspaper published "Children Play 'Popular Terriers' Parents Are More and More Incomprehensible", which resonated with many citizens. "All kinds of 'Internet popular memes' are really popular, especially those 'rotten terriers' are popular in the social vocabulary of minors, from middle school to primary school and even kindergarten, the world of children is really more and more incomprehensible to us parents." One citizen lamented. The reporter interviewed a number of citizens and found that more than 95% of people do not support children saying "rotten terriers", and they believe that these "rotten terriers" will have a negative impact on children's language expression and values.
□ Chief Reporter of this newspaper Li Wei, Reporter Zhao Xiaohua Intern Li Chennan
Student's homework plays "terrier" The teacher is very helpless when he sees it
"Nowadays, the Internet is constantly developing, and primary and secondary school students learn about current affairs and hot topics through the Internet to watch various hot searches, including 'Internet popular memes'. And usually in school, children are group activities, so as long as a 'hot terrier' appears on the Internet, it will immediately become popular in the class or school. As an elementary school teacher, Ms. Huang expressed her opinion.
Ms. Huang said that after discovering that children are familiar with "Internet memes", they will penetrate into learning over time. Although integrating "hot terriers" into life can give people a sense of humor, teachers will really feel helpless if students also use them frequently in their homework.
"For elementary school students, although they are young, they are very quick to accept Internet hotspots, and they are familiar with Internet buzzwords." Ms. Huang said that when checking her homework, she found that a student used key words to write three consecutive words: One key three consecutive (for attention). At first, I didn't react, and after thinking for a long time, I understood that this is what online video anchors often say.
In Ms. Huang's view, children "playing terriers" after class and saying some "Internet popular memes" can actually enliven the atmosphere and enhance mutual emotions. But if you often talk about "rotten terriers", it will be very helpless for teachers. In addition, I do not advocate the "Internet meme" infiltrating into children's schoolwork.
"Actually, I also understand that children don't have bad intentions, they just think it's fun. But if you really let it go, children can't tell whether the 'epidemic terrier' is healthy or not, and it is indeed a problem in the long run. Ms. Huang said that as a teacher, she often conveys some correct ideas to students so that they understand what kind of language is beautiful.
The inability of language to communicate properly leads to disputes between grandchildren and grandchildren
In the investigation of a number of citizens, the reporter found that more than 95% of parents do not support their children to say "rotten terriers", half of them parents will directly stop their children from saying "rotten terriers", and the other half of parents will use guidance to let their children understand what "rotten terriers" are.
"'Rotten terriers' are easy to flood vulgar culture, and I am afraid that children's long-term contact will unknowingly affect their spiritual world." A citizen said that primary and secondary school students are in the period of language learning, and they do not know whether the "rotten terrier" will affect their language learning ability.
In the interview, Ms. Zhou told a story about what happened between herself and her young grandson. "My little grandson is in the 5th grade this year, and some time ago the school took a test, and when I got home, I asked him how he did in this exam? He came with a sentence: It's over, the test is smashed, Barbie Q. Ms. Zhou said that she was really confused after listening to her little grandson's answer, and quickly continued to ask what these words meant?
Unexpectedly, the child came a little impatiently and said: "You are so OUT, you can't understand this." Ms. Zhou said that she was a little angry after listening to her little grandson's words. In this way, due to the inability to communicate normally, it eventually led to a dispute between grandchildren and grandchildren. Although later, the little grandson apologized to himself and told himself that "Barbie Q" and "OUT" were "Internet popular memes", Ms. Zhou was still a little uncomfortable in her heart. She said that her discomfort is not because of anger with children, but because she feels that many "Internet popular terriers" make children unable to talk well, and it is even more troublesome if they encounter those "rotten terriers" again.
"During the weekend family gathering, chatting with my cousin in the fourth grade of elementary school, he suddenly popped up a few 'Internet memes', and there were many 'rotten terriers'. At that time, I was a little shocked, because in my cousin's mouth, 'you are an old six' and the like is very common, and he also said a lot of 'rotten terriers' that surprised me. Oda, 24, said that it felt abrupt to hear his cousin say this, because this should not be the way a 10-year-old thinks and speaks, and he seems to see a child wearing an adult suit. For a moment, Oda felt that he should be old and unable to keep up with the trend of the times.
Xiaotian said that his cousin often swiped his mobile phone to watch some short videos in his spare time, and the short videos on the Internet were uneven, and his 10-year-old cousin had no ability to discriminate, so all the content was absorbed. "I once asked him if he knew the meaning of those 'terriers', and my cousin shook his head and said, I don't know, I just think it's funny." Speaking of this, Xiao Tian sighed and said that he wanted to try to talk to his little cousin, at least so that he could distinguish "good terriers" and "rotten terriers".
Children are susceptible to short videos and people around them
Why do children love "Internet memes"? Li Xinyu, a psychotherapist in the Department of Clinical Psychology of the First Hospital of Hebei Medical University and a national second-level psychological counselor, said: "Today's primary and secondary school students' love for 'Internet popular memes', first of all, is children's pursuit of novel nature, so they may say some popular memes in online short video middle school, wanting to attract the attention of people around them; secondly, children may have a herd mentality, if everyone around them says, they often choose to follow along." ”
"The problem of 'Internet memes' has existed for a long time. Today's primary and secondary school students are in the online environment where short videos are popular, and they are at the peak of mental development, with strong learning ability, curiosity, curiosity, etc., so they are very vulnerable to the influence of the external environment. Li Xinyu said that on the one hand, "Internet popular rotten terriers" is a kind of labeling, emotional catharsis, which is not conducive to the cultivation of language ability, thinking development and interpersonal communication of primary and secondary school students. On the other hand, children often use this expression, which is easy to cause and drive more classmates to imitate, thus forming a bad atmosphere of "talking badly".
Li Xinyu suggested that for children who often say "popular memes" on the Internet, parents need to do correct guidance. Because "vulgar terriers" may cause confusion to the listener and even cause misunderstanding between each other, resulting in conflict. "When children play 'terriers', they need to avoid vulgar and rotten 'terriers' to avoid causing harm to others." Li Xinyu said that from this point of view, parents should set an example to standardize the language and avoid the appearance of vulgar language. Nowadays, various online social platforms have a greater impact on teenagers, and children are easy to imitate. To this end, we call on the platform to strengthen the review and not let the vulgar "meme" pass the review.
"Yayan" should be more beautiful than "Internet popular meme"
So what should you do as a parent when you encounter a child who says "Internet popular rotten terrier"?
Li Xinyu said that the emergence of "Internet popular memes" is a normal phenomenon of social development, take its essence and remove its waste, as long as parents are good at guidance, children will be able to accurately grasp Internet language and learn to speak well. Parents need to pay attention to: once it is found that the child has used negative online language, it must be pointed out in time. At this time, parents should not be rude, to prevent the child from saying this word, this will also arouse the child's rebellious heart. The child should be told in a tactful way that the word is not good, that it will make people uncomfortable to hear it when it is said so that the child should understand. Secondly, parents must also "keep pace with the times", and if they want to understand their children's ideas, they must enter their children's world. Parents can take the time to learn about the popular things among their children, so that they will feel very close and interesting when communicating with their children, and children will be willing to open up to their parents.
Li Xinyu said that as a parent, you first need to regulate your own language at home to avoid "Internet popular memes" in daily life. While paying attention to their own language civilization, parents should also strictly control the time and content of their children's use of electronic products, and accompany their children to read, games, sports, etc. with high quality. "Primary and secondary school students should strengthen classical reading, learn and train beautiful written expressions, and cultivate the sense of 'Yayan'. Let them know that when they are troubled, it is more beautiful to express it as 'the white head scratches are shorter and full of desire' than 'I emo'. Li Xinyu said.