Male friendships in films tend to focus on dissimilar types that fate brings together.

Sometimes it's cops (like Mel Gibson and Danny Glover in the Lethal Weapon series), sometimes it's teenagers (like Keanu Reeves and Alex Winter in the Bill & Ted movies), but rarely is this stuff a combination originated as the British-Irish director and screenwriter Martin McDonagh dreamed up for “Bruges to See and Die” in 2008: Two contract killers go into hiding in the Belgian city of Bruges.

One, played by Colin Farrell, looks melancholy at the foggy streets, plagued by a bad conscience because an order went terribly wrong.

The other, Brendan Gleeson, makes the most of the break and drags his colleague through the sights of the medieval city centre.

Because McDonagh, together with his leading actors, manages to turn it into a story about friendship, sin and forgiveness that interweaves equal parts tragedy, comedy and action, the film is considered a classic.

The American late-night presenter Seth Meyers recently even admitted to kidnapping his wife on their honeymoon to Bruges in order to recreate scenes from the original locations on photos there.

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14 years later, Martin McDonagh has again been able to win Farrell and Gleeson for a joint film project.

In The Banshees of Inisherin they play two friends again - this time on a narrow, idyllic Irish island in the early 20th century.

But there the common path comes to an abrupt and violent end.

So it's the right occasion to talk to Colin Farrell and Brendan Gleeson about friendship and ask them how best to break up with someone you're not actually dating.

For the interview, both joined via video call from London. They sit close together, with a poster in the background showing the lush green meadows of the island where the film was shot.

In conversation they joke with each other, tease each other - we want to find out

In your new film we see a friendship coming to an end, which is sometimes funny and often very tragic.

Were you able to bring your own experiences to bear on your roles?

Have you ever had to end a friendship in real life yourself?

Farrell:

No, luckily I never had to.

But life is a steady journey toward and then away from: into marriage and out of singleness, into adulthood and away from childhood, toward death and further and further away from the moment when one came into being.

I've lost friends in my life, of course, but never with the severity and immediate emotional and psychological complications that this breakup brings with it on film.

I'm allowed to say the beautiful line: "Yesterday everything was fine, and suddenly this black cloud hangs over everything and my whole world has changed." It was exactly this shock for my character Pádraic that was Martin McDonagh's script very clear.