Tamara Falcó and her forgiveness of Íñigo: from an empowered woman to a weak self-esteem

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Once you try it, you repeat.

Such are the honeys of infidelity.

It is not that there is an absolute law around second chances, but

has been a repeat offender and, from what science tells us, he has many ballots to be recalcitrant.

I mean, incorrigible.

After crying a sea of ​​tears for the famous kiss in the metaverse, Tamara left her mother's house with the label of empowerment occupying the place where she had recently worn a diamond ring that turned out to be a liar.

Nervous and hesitant, as she is, but blunt:

she assured, making it clear that reconciliation was impossible.

Only a few months have passed and there is an announcement of reconciliation.

When temptation knocks on the door

What happened?

Perhaps the marquise lacks reading.

Without intending to spoil the party, but to put your feet on the ground, we will quote a study carried out at Harvard and Northwestern universities that concludes that people with dishonest attitudes stumble over and over again with the same stone.

They tend to develop a kind of

with which they will justify their relapse and, incidentally, will help them to avoid any feeling of anguish.

So, when Onieva feels the temptation of meat again, he will have forgotten what disturbed him so much just a few weeks ago and that amnesia that the researchers talk about will allow him to

She doesn't even need a second chance to show that she is better than yesterday and today.

traitors and betrayals

The investigation is already a few years old, but it seemed made like a glove for this occasion.

Its authors, Maryam Kouchaki and Francesca Gino, also observed that these people are very adept at judging the transgressions of others.

They will always be under your prism more deplorable than yours.

Wasn't this what Onieva thought when she discovered

Now that the thing about the lipstick stains on the shirt is somewhat out of date, the Marchioness should get hold of the technology that scientists use in their brain observations to

If so, it would be irrefutable proof that she is cheating on him.

However, by dint of repeating the same lie, even the brain, exhausted, would end up not even flinching.

The more we lie, the more this little neural almond learns to remain impassive.

The excuses of the unfaithful

Faith has taught Tamara to forgive. Has Onieva learned not to offend?

The playwright Pierre Corneille says that whoever forgives easily invites offense.

He will always find a reason to excuse himself: a friend's flirtation, the fun atmosphere of a festival, the confusion of the night, alcohol or, as the Harvard scientists point out, the opportune temporary amnesia.

Nor should it be ruled out that the possibility of becoming a marquis consort has made him incorruptible.

Íñigo and Tamara happy, when infidelity had not yet made an appearance in their relationship. Gtres

"Infidelity is not negotiable: love and deceit are incompatible. Forgive? It depends on self-esteem and if the rancor is resolved," writes Walter Riso on his Twitter account.

This psychologist, who has conquered millions of people with his books on love, warns that trusting the stability of the couple to the ups and downs of feelings is "insane."

Passion is not enough to create a stable and calm life project like the one to which the Marquise de Griñón aspires.

Riso is convinced that the infidel has a high probability of being unfaithful again: "Love does not shield you and Eros attacks from behind."

Lots of work ahead

Of course, second chances are a controversial issue, but a very intimate one.

Each person decides if he will be able to reignite the fire again.

Tamara will surely use her inspirational speeches to work with her partner

and all those Christian values ​​that inspire her.

But it is possible that the pattern of taking responsibility for the behavior of the beloved has become obsolete and is more typical of a dandruff patriarchy that leads women to take charge of the actions of the man.

Returning to the relationship without having left any space or time for mourning leaves her in a clearly vulnerable position and

in the relationship.

How many times will she have wondered what he did wrong to make him unfaithful or how she should act to not let him go?

Tamara's Decisions

Antoni Bolinches,

another of the psychologists with more years and books on sexual and love theories, assures that, when there has been infidelity, it is so bad to take unnecessary risks by becoming excessively intimate with third parties, "such as isolating oneself from the world with the vain pretense of avoid any kind of risk or temptation".

Tamara will now find herself at a difficult crossroads: put gates on the field and turn it into a fence or grant her a license to flirt.

"Infidelity - warns Bolinches - is not avoided with control but with trust. First, because

Second, because control stimulates infidelity. In the next chapters of this exciting soap opera that began with an original jewel of triple diamond in tear, we will discover if there are still episodes left to count the setbacks because the adulterer was definitely unrepentant or they will surprise us with an exemplary lifestyle.

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