The dark side of fame, according to Aitana

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How is fame assimilated when you are 19 years old?" This is how

began an interview with Aitana published in Yo Dona in 2018, and we could ask ourselves the same now, with an

in her 23s going through what seems to be her first via crucis as a character public, "suffering" the attacks of the media that, she says, watch her house even at night. To her, who grants just enough interviews to talk about her own, come on, about music; to her, one of our most elusive celebrities with the media, we all want to know about Aitana but Aitana doesn't know, she doesn't answer...

When the artichokes and the cameras cornered her yesterday at the event organized by Vogue and

'Beauté Christmas Party' in Madrid, the Barcelonan, who began joking about her change of look and the flu that she has been going through these days, took advantage of a question about her private life to say a) that she never talked about it;

and b) to ask for help: "I'm telling you, with my hand on my heart, to see if you can help me, not to record me at home. Because a lot of people are starting to come at three in the morning, men, at four in the morning... I am alone, I have a very bad time, I am very scared".

She also said that she already has assumed that they chase her down the street.

What a remedy, because in our interview with her in 2018 she had not yet gotten used to the idea: "If they ask you in interviews, then you have to put up with it. Another thing is that they follow you when you go down the street and someone finds out things about your personal sphere that you don't want to share. That does affect

To her privacy, and to her nerves.

Although she already saw it coming, somehow: "In the end you end up knowing almost everything."

Suddenly Aitana is living her own reverse 'Notting Hill', although

has nothing, nothing, from

Come on, it is unlikely that, given the tone that events have taken, he ends up telling Aitana that mythical phrase "today's newspapers will line tomorrow's garbage cans."

On the contrary.

In the public appearances that they have had to make together for the promotion of 'La última', the bad vibes and the hostility that was terrifying were transparent to them.

Especially to him.

In the end, we cannot forget a central fact in this story: that

ONLY 23 years old.

And maybe it's too much to ask him to

and everything that comes with it well at that age, and that today consists mainly of the fact that there are no longer impregnable corners of private life.

When in 2018 we asked him about

and how he planned to manage it on

(by then he already had more than a million followers on Instagram) he said: "For now it is very recent and I do not think that the

of my

be big.

In the end, on social networks you show what you want: if you don't want something to be known, then don't show it;

If something happens, it will be your fault." What Aitana did not know is that she was not going to find the problem on social networks, but at the door of her house,

On

Aitana will face her fans at a concert at the

in Madrid.

There she will find herself in her sauce, before more than 15,000 people, who are the ones that fit in the venue.

And who knows if perhaps, like

in Las Vegas, her heart and tongue will loosen there.

"When a relationship collapses, it doesn't matter if you're married or not, it's very difficult to deal with, it's really traumatic," the Londoner said recently on stage before thousands of people, referring to her divorce from

the father of her child. Angelo.

And it is that everyone understands intimacy as they want, it would be missing more.

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