And what are you in bed, a Simeone or a Zidane?

• PLEASURE How to make good sex outstanding

• FRIENDS More than friction: adventure without significance, school of love or bad idea?

What does sex have to do with football?

Quite a lot, really.

Passion is very present in both

The important thing is to enjoy it and have a good memory of the match, because not everything is scoring goals.

Although, both in the field and in bed, we tend to forget about the latter.

But, above all, in the game (also of sex) it can be animated, or not.

Knowing how to encourage the team to strengthen it is an art that can be achieved with various methodologies.

In addition to positively affecting the result, it serves to

welcoming, healthy and productive based on communication, trust, listening, cohesion and support.

In short, it makes a team.

One that adds up, professionally and humanly.

As in all other areas of our lives, in bed we also

.

The question is how and what we seek when doing it.

ZIDANE'S STYLE

Zidane, in full derby, with Simeone in the background. PIERRE-PHILIPPE MARCOU AFP

Being a

in bed means

, without expressing yourself verbally and showing content in emotion, but attentive to what is happening and involved.

Having a sexual partner who behaves like this can convey

in the good work of your partner.

This can make you feel free and allow you to flow.

"If we are two adults and if something was wrong, I say he would tell me. So why worry, right?"

But that does not mean that he is not silently evaluating every detail and after the sexual encounter, he gives you

that leaves you speechless, for his

.

But it is not what is done but what it is done for and the attitude when transmitting it.

If you do it with love, valuing what you liked and making visible what could be improved to enjoy it more, offering keys to make it so, great!

If it's to make you see that he

all the time and not a single one escaped him, evidencing his superiority, fatal!

A CHOLO SIMEONE

Simeone and Zidane greet each other before a Madrid derby.AFP

Being a

in bed, on the other hand, would consist of

that moves you during the relationship.

He will broadcast to you live and direct everything he loves about you, how well you do it and he will ask you for what he wants.

It will also set limits for you and you will know what you don't like, encouraging you to do it in another way or to look for new strategies to enjoy it to the fullest.

It can be a very appropriate style because

and is expressed at the right time, which is when it happens.

However, taken to the limit, it could confuse you, taking you out of the sensoriality of the encounter and plunging you fully into the

instead of letting yourself go.

So, it wouldn't be strange if you let out an Oh, shut up already!

CHEER OR NOT

It will depend on several factors such as, for example, the previous agreements that we have agreed, based on the knowledge we have about the person with whom we are going to play a game or more.

For this

and transmit, before or as the game unfolds, what we like, turns us on, relaxes us and excites us.

And what not.

Whether verbal or not.

In addition,

.

There will be certain issues that can be resolved on the fly and will benefit the meeting.

Others will be better to treat them calmly once finished, even another day, as they require more dedication and a state of calm that may not be possible after scoring a great goal (or believing that it was, when it was not).

THE IMPORTANCE OF DIALOGUE

Simeone is a more effusive profile, while Zidane is more reserved.JAVIER SORIANAFP

In any case, when in doubt, the quickest and best thing to do is to inform and ask.

For example: "I like to do this, and you?".

"Even if you don't do it, do you think it's okay for me to do it or does it bother you?"

In unexpected situations, where you don't know their tastes, in addition to

, you can observe their non-verbal communication to detect if it is better not to hint at that moment or to act without speaking.

For example,

you like, stroke how you would like to be stroked, or squeeze his butt firmly to convey that you love what he does.

To let him know that you like his ways, encourage him.

In general terms, people who are more sure of their sexual aptitudes could perceive this "zidedino" behavior as an evaluation of their performance and motivate themselves by trying to be

in the following encounters.

Appreciating even the negative part of his assessment, understanding that knowing him would add to both parties.

Likewise, the lovers of a "cholista", who have a

, will live well those words of encouragement and the effusiveness of the positive reinforcements that they emit during the meeting.

In the same way, he will be able to increase his excitement and fun.

On the contrary, for people who are very insecure in this area,

.

Coming to monitor each of his erotic movements excessively, to identify if he is doing well out there or Zidane will take the golden ball from him at the end of the match.

Or stop enjoying himself by not stopping wondering why the hell his Simeone hasn't encouraged him today.

Would that mean you are doing it wrong?

No, only that he is

.

*ANA SIERRA is a sexologist and couples therapist.

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