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Early beginnings

Amal El Minshawi

@amalalmenshawi@amalalmenshawi

21 July 2022

Its idea amazes us, and we rule out that it will be a successful reality, so we try to delay it with all our means, telling them that their sleeves are still tender, and the battles of life are fierce.

Our eager hearts refuse to fly their wings to the gale, hoping to keep them by our side until the last moment, and our eyes fear the showers of rain and the morning breeze for their joy and beauty.

We worry that if someone tells us his story or problem, and question marks throw our heads relentlessly, how can this stick resist?

This is how we are with our children when someone tries to test the world around him early, whether through work, travel or love, we think that we are able to protect them and perform all roles on their behalf, and delay putting them on the path of responsibility, as long as God grants us the ability to carry it instead of them.

We go through one argument after another;

Sometimes by studying them or by their lack of experience, and at other times by their lack of capabilities, until we wake up either by clashing with them or by being fascinated by their capabilities, and their openness to their vision of people and things around them.

The third millennium generation - with all its hustle and development - is multi-talented, has enough time to do a lot, and it is unfair to limit it to the study circle only, especially those who have finished high school, so waiting until after finishing university without examining working life is one of the biggest causes of post-graduation unemployment Where the biography has no previous work, experience or training, what exposes the young man and the girl to great frustration, which may take expensive years of life.

Employment, training and production opportunities are available both in real life and online. The important thing is that we parents understand that their time is different from ours, treat their passions and dreams with respect, and give them the support they expect.

Yes, their forearms are still tender, but their minds are young, and their understanding is great. How many times has one of you used his son or daughter to solve a technical problem in his phone!

And how many times we felt grateful to the Lord of the worlds when we assigned one of them to solve the problem of his younger brother, teach him or modify his behavior, and he achieved impressive results!

Unleash the potential of your children, give them the opportunity of early beginnings, and the great success that it bears, and bring them out of the mantle of fear and childish hunchback, and create opportunities for them to train and work alongside the study, and encourage them to experience practical life in all its arts, from conversation, communication, achievement and respect for time and others, and weigh their personalities. And their skills, the world has changed a lot around us, and the void has become a terrifying trap, if we do not fill it with useful, it will fill it with scum, and it will be filled with chaos.

Unleash the potential of your children, and give them the opportunity of early beginnings, and the great success and certain good that it holds, and get them out of the cloak of fear and childish hunchback, and create opportunities for them to train and work alongside studies.

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