China News Service, Jinan, May 20 (Reporter Sha Jianlong) "Good morning, everyone, welcome to the Liulishan Love Gang Group live broadcast room. '520' I'm here, I met the most beautiful you at the best time, aunt I would like to spend the happiest day with you today." On May 20, at the Liulishan Sub-district Office in Jinan, community aunts restarted the webcast to "send objects" for free for older single young people, so that everyone in need can reap the benefits own happiness.
Liulishan Love Gang was established in March 2020.
In the early days of the COVID-19 outbreak, community-minded aunties paid attention to the lives of residents in their jurisdictions under the prevention and control of the epidemic by "knocking on doors, meeting people, and chatting".
After the epidemic prevention and control became normalized, the aunts found that many older men and women in the jurisdiction had not yet found their favorite half, so they came up with the idea of "sending them".
Zhao Hui is the Secretary of the Comprehensive Party Committee and the Director of the Neighborhood Committee of Yuhan South District, Liulishan Street, Central District, Jinan City. She and her colleagues found in the community work that during the festivals, many older young people were reluctant to go home because of the urging of marriage at home, so they initiated "Don't worry if you have difficulties, the community aunt will help you; if there is no object, don't worry, help the group aunt send it to you" activity.
After the event was launched, it has attracted widespread attention. Currently, more than 6,000 people have registered for blind dates here. The scope of registration personnel has gradually expanded from the original jurisdiction to the city, the province, the whole country, and even overseas Chinese.
"For more than two years, the help group has created a blind date miracle that took 500 days to match 500 pairs." Zhao Hui told reporters that blind daters who are willing to let aunt "send objects" need to pass on their basic information and photos to aunt , Aunts register their personal information one by one. They are busy with community work during the day and register information about young men and women. At night, they give up entertainment time such as square dancing to match the boys and girls who signed up that day.
"During that time, I set myself a goal to match 20 pairs every day."
Gangbang Group initially targeted older youths. Online, men and women were over 30 and 28 years old.
Offline, the blind date who signed up is lower than this age standard, but it is more urgent, and the aunts also help them match.
"As a past person, who is married to whom can be seen at a glance by the auntie." Zhao Hui told a reporter from Chinanews.com that during the matchmaking process, she found that the conditions put forward by young men and women were more pragmatic, and the younger the age, the more The greater the chance of success in holding hands; some blind daters don't care about the other party's conditions, but they actually have a basic framework in their hearts.
There are also some blind daters who are more demanding, such as requiring the other party's house to be within the second ring road.
Why do many people in their 30s and 40s still haven't found their ideal partner?
In Zhao Hui's view, many single young people have a "frame" in their minds to imagine each other, but this fantasy may not exist in reality. best fit, not the so-called 'conditions'".
Judging from the matchmaking during this period of time, blind daters who are in the "middle level" have the highest matching success rate and the fastest hand in hand, "because they can clearly set their 'position', often the last remaining ones are those with fairly good conditions. ".
"There are many community teams engaged in blind date work, but our team has unique conditions." Talking about the secrets to the success of the love help group, Zhao Hui said that most of the team members are from the past, and the children in the family are married, so they can know more about single young people. real thoughts.
At the same time, the behavior of the aunts is not mixed with any financial interests, and will encourage and guide blind daters to show themselves bravely, and interpret the "warmhearted" very well. True Fruit".
"Social harmony benefits from community harmony, and community harmony benefits from the harmony of every family." Zhao Hui said that community work requires a lot of effort and effort. Matching single young people seems to help blind date and find a partner. In fact, it is solving social problems.
As the "leader" of the community, she has to deal with various disputes in the community every day, "in the final analysis, it is caused by discord."
Single young people should solve lifelong affairs when they reach a certain age. Once they have a family, many conflicts and disputes will be solved easily. "When families and neighborhoods are harmonious, the community will also become harmonious."
In the past three months of epidemic prevention and control this year, from community control to acid detection, the aunts of the Love Help Group have changed from matchmakers to "big whites", working with volunteers from 0:00 to 0:00, working continuously for 7 days, becoming the The "007 soldier" in the epidemic prevention and control post.
Zhao Hui said that during this period, many young men and women who had a blind date took the initiative to devote themselves to the community epidemic prevention and control work to fight side by side with the aunt, so that the aunt could see it in her eyes and love her in her heart.
"We firmly believe that happiness will surely come to such a caring and passionate young man." (End)