She confirmed that his culture has become more receptive after the “Corona” crisis.

Ruqaiya Al Balushi: Life coaching is not a luxury

• Ruqayya stressed that creativity is inseparable from the balance between private life and work.

  Photography: Ashok Verma

• A life coach deals with the present and leads to the future.

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After an experience that spanned more than 15 years in the banking field, Emirati Ruqayya Al Balushi searched for a different experience and other horizons to develop, so she began her journey with the world of life coaching, specializing in the field of creativity and leadership, as she underwent many training courses and obtained recognized certificates. Internationally, until she became an officially certified trainer, to start at the beginning with individual sessions, and move to the level of institutions and groups, specializing in creativity, choice code and leadership.

At the beginning of her dialogue with "Emirates Today", Rokaya confirmed that creativity is inseparable from balance, as there is a common link between working and private life, explaining: "He who suffers in his work often has special problems, or vice versa, there is a connection between the two sides, we work For eight to 10 hours a day, and sometimes it is difficult to completely separate private life from work.”

She added: "Life coaching takes a lot of fields, and this science has begun to gain greater awareness and acceptance among many, especially since training is not like counseling. Work differently, because the coach helps the person discover himself, and solve his affairs with less damage and higher benefit, and does not give solutions, but rather broadens the horizons of one’s thinking and vision in order to see his whole life from a larger angle.

towards the future

On how the human mind deals with life’s problems, Ruqayya said, “When problems appear in a person’s life, the unconscious mind may see them beyond its absorptive capacity, but some people relate to the conscious mind and see things logically and outwardly rather than sensually and inwardly, and therefore they often listen to the conscious mind. More”, considering that the culture of life training has become more acceptable, especially after the Corona pandemic.

And she saw that there are many reservations about the issue of resorting to a life coach, and there is a discrepancy in the levels of acceptance among people, and that is why I turned more to group training, because the majority accept this form more than personal, and after group sessions, many accept personal sessions.

The life coach deals with the present and leads to the future. For this reason, Ruqayya Al-Balushi noted that a return to the past is rarely done, except in some cases in which a person suffers from the roots of problems that are rooted in the memory, and left their effects on the personality, and therefore it is difficult to start with them from the present, pointing to Life coaching is actually an investment in oneself.

She stressed that many businessmen and celebrities have life coaches permanently, because they are constantly developing themselves, and for individuals who may not have the ability, they can follow up on a monthly basis, to continue to invest in themselves and to manage their life in a balanced way.

Between the top and the bottom

Regarding whether life training is a necessity or a luxury, Ruqayya al-Balushi considered that it “depends on the condition of each individual. Therefore, the counseling is useful to determine his location and how to deal with himself, as the training gives him another perspective to deal with his problems and all the affairs of his life.”

And about relying on the coach, she indicated that training is moral, and one must feel that the coach touched his heart in order to feel the change, and he also needs to abide by many rules that lead to actual change.

Roqaya enumerated several mistakes that distance a person from creativity, and often represented in studying in a specialty and working in another field, which generates in some people a lack of passion, and therefore productivity is not distinctive, and growth is slow, and this affects the person in general.

There are also fears sometimes of appearing, as people are afraid of judgments, and this may hinder their development, in addition to the fact that some focus on the financial return greatly, which wastes creativity.

She noted that she is working hard to naturally raise positivity and focus the concept of peace in the human psyche, which leads to development in the field of awareness with many and thus creativity, expressing her ambition to reach the world in this field in which she specialized.

Law of Attraction

Life coach Ruqayya al-Balushi linked the law of attraction to life training, noting that it is "a cosmic law, but many practice it wrongly, as it is linked to pursuit, while some promote it as based on imagination only."

She added that the law of attraction needs mental, heart and spiritual steps. Imagination occupies the mind only and does not occupy the feelings, and for this reason, the imagination does not move the energy properly, so we need to move the thoughts so that the positive things in life are manifested.

Ruqaiya Al Balooshi:

• “Life coaching is an investment in oneself, and there are businessmen and celebrities who have life coaches on a permanent basis.”

• «The coach helps one to solve his affairs with less damage and higher benefit, and he does not give solutions, but rather broadens the horizons of his thinking».

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