The wedding photos of the anti-cancer woman's bald head moved netizens to leave messages: It can be seen that she is married to love
Jiang Duanduan, an anti-cancer woman in Xuancheng, Anhui, and her husband Yang Yang took a group of bald wedding photos.
In the photo, Jiang Duanduan has a sweet smile despite having shaved his hair due to chemotherapy.
After she posted the photo to the short video platform, she touched many netizens, and netizens left messages: "You are so beautiful without your hair", "Married to love, and her husband's eyes are always on you."
Jiang Duanduan and her husband have been married for seven years, but have never taken wedding photos.
In May 2021, Jiang Duanduan was diagnosed with breast cancer.
In order to make up for her regret, at the end of February this year, her husband and son accompanied her to take a group of wedding photos.
On April 11, Jiang Duanduan said, "Thank you for your husband's company. How fortunate to be able to become husband and wife with you. I also hope that my sisters who share the same illness as me will work hard to live."
dream come true
Cancer-fighting woman takes bald wedding photos
Netizens send blessings
After a lapse of seven years, Jiang Duanduan, a 36-year-old woman from Xuancheng, Anhui, put on a wedding dress again.
Unlike seven years ago, she lost her hair due to breast cancer, with her 6-year-old son standing beside her.
Jiang Duanduan told Ziniu News that the bald-headed wedding photo was taken at the end of February this year.
Speaking of the reason for taking bald wedding photos, Jiang Duanduan said frankly that it was to make up for his regrets seven years ago.
On February 14, 2015, she and Yang Yang held a wedding.
But the family's economic conditions are not very good, so I did not take wedding photos.
"We're thinking about making more shots when conditions are available in the future." Jiang Duanduan said.
At the end of February this year, Jiang Duanduan, who had shaved his hair due to cancer, told his husband that he wanted to take a wedding photo, and he quickly received support.
Yang Yang told the Ziniu News reporter: "I think it's fine, as long as she can be happy." When he saw the finished wedding photos, Yang Yang found them very beautiful, "I feel that these pictures are very warm and happy, this is a group of Wedding photos with special commemorative significance."
Jiang Duanduan said: "Although I think of the painful experience when I am sick when I see these photos, I am also happy because I am accompanied by people who love me. They have given me courage and made me stronger, which is the most precious thing in life. experience.”
After she posted the video of the bald-headed wedding photo to the Internet, she moved many netizens, and everyone left a message: "You are beautiful without hair, a happy family of three" "The most beautiful bride, come on, I wish you a speedy recovery." Yang Yang didn't think about himself either. The wedding photos with his wife will receive so much attention, and he is very grateful for the support and encouragement of netizens.
fall in love
Because of blood donation, acquaintances come together and get sick unexpectedly
In September 2009, Jiang Duanduan was working in a local plasma center in Anhui, and he met Yang Yang who came to donate blood with his friends.
When the two met for the first time, she felt that Yang Yang was dark, thin, and not tall, so she had no idea of love at first sight.
However, a phone call a month later made her change her opinion of Yang Yang.
Since they are similar in age, they have the same point of interest. "After contacting him for a while, I found that his three views are relatively positive, and he is humorous and has a good personality. I was gradually attracted to him."
During the chat, Jiang Duanduan was also moved by Yang Yang's family situation. "His parents divorced and he grew up with his grandmother. I found that he has gone through so many things, but he is still positive and moved by his spirit."
Around 2013, the two of them went to Shanghai to work hard and engaged in real estate sales.
Although the income is not a lot, they have common hobbies and goals, they are very satisfied with life, their relationship has gradually warmed up, and they held the wedding as scheduled.
On April 8, 2016, their son was born, starting the life of a family of three, which made the couple more motivated to strive for a better life.
However, one day in 2021 broke the tranquility of this small family life.
On May 18, 2021, Jiang Duanduan found a lump in his breast while taking a bath. Accompanied by his husband, he went to the hospital for a B-ultrasound examination and underwent minimally invasive surgery. A quick pathology report was issued on the same day, showing that it had become cancerous. Inform her for immediate treatment.
When she knew the result, Jiang Duanduan felt gloomy in her heart, "I can't believe how such a thing happened to me?" She thinks that she is still young, her body is great and healthy, and her daily diet and rest are relatively normal.
After Jiang Duanduan told his husband who was waiting outside the operating room, Yang Yang couldn't believe it, but after seeing his wife's solemn expression, he immediately adjusted his mind and comforted his wife: "don't worry, just rest assured and get treatment, everything is fine. I'm holding on!"
accompany
Her husband's meticulous care helped her out of the psychological shadow
On March 21 this year, Jiang Duanduan ended his 25th radiotherapy.
Recalling the treatment process in the past less than a year, she still feels pain.
On June 7, 2021, accompanied by her husband, Jiang Duanduan underwent a total incision and radical operation of the left breast.
After surgery, chemotherapy was started.
Chemotherapy will cause hair loss, so Jiang Duanduan shaved his hair in advance in order to avoid his appearance becoming unsightly.
Jiang Duanduan said that her husband drove her to the barber shop for the first time when she shaved her head. At that time, she walked into the shop pretending to be calm and said to the clerk, "Shave my head!" The clerk was very surprised when she heard it. Few people may have made this request.
Although Jiang Duanduan pretended to be calm at the beginning, when her hair fell a little bit, she still shed tears.
After cutting her hair, her husband comforted her in the car and said, "It's nothing, it will grow in the future."
During chemotherapy, she often broke out in cold sweats, vomited from time to time, lost her appetite, and was full of depression, her mood was always cloudy, and she was often worried about her future life, "Why did I get this disease, and what if it recurs in the future? "
Every time he accompanies his wife during chemotherapy and sees his wife's painful expression, Yang Yang sees it in his eyes and hurts in his heart, and tries every way to comfort his wife.
Jiang Duanduan said that his husband did not know how to cook before he had cancer.
After falling ill, Yang Yang took on the responsibility of taking care of his wife.
During chemotherapy, Jiang Duanduan's health was getting worse and worse. Yang Yang always wanted his wife to eat as much as possible to enhance the body's resistance.
Yang Yang knew that his wife liked seafood, so after get off work, he would go to the supermarket to buy all kinds of fish, shrimp and shells to cook at home and cook some meals that would increase appetite. "Her body was weak during chemotherapy and needed to supplement protein, so I bought a lot of things she likes to eat. I want her to eat more and feel better."
Yang Yang also searched for various authoritative information about breast cancer on the Internet and read it to his wife, comforting his wife that the medical conditions are now developed, the treatment plan is relatively complete, and the cure rate is very high, so don't worry too much.
Whenever his wife came home from chemotherapy, Yang Yang would massage and soak her feet.
In this way, accompanied by Yang Yang, Jiang Duanduan gradually got out of the psychological shadow and accepted the reality calmly.
inspirational
Shooting a short video against cancer encourages patients to live hard
Jiang Duanduan revealed to the Ziniu News reporter that the current condition is in the recovery period, and he needs to take breast cancer endocrine therapy drugs every day and go to the hospital for injections every month. "After the epidemic is over, I will go to the hospital for another reconstruction operation."
Jiang Duanduan is very grateful to her husband for his hard work and company day and night. "Although I am sick, he is the hardest and he is more stressed than me. He has to take care of me while working." Yang Yang sometimes jokes, "wife, you Is it fake sickness, do you want me to serve you?"
During the days of taking care of his wife, Yang Yang has always maintained optimism and often said to his wife, "Sunshine always comes after wind and rain, and we have passed through the most difficult times. We will live a good life with our children."
In October 2021, Jiang Duanduan felt bored because of recuperating at home for a long time, so he wanted to shoot some short videos to record his life.
In order to make his wife happy, Yang Yang often cooperates with her in various poses and movements in the kitchen.
Ziniu News reporter noticed that Jiang Duanduan has shot nearly 100 short videos so far, and each video has thousands of likes from netizens.
Some netizens left a message: "Come on, I was diagnosed with surgery at the age of 34. It's been 12 years now, and the annual physical examination review is very good. Come on sisters, a good mentality can overcome everything!" Another netizen said: "I watched your video. , I was very moved, and it also strengthened my confidence in defeating the disease."
Jiang Duanduan revealed to the Ziniu News reporter that in addition to passing the time when shooting short videos, he has new ideas. After he posted his cancer experience on the Internet, many patients sent her private messages, but these patients were not in a very good mood. Well, there are even suicidal thoughts.
"Some people think it's ugly to take a bald photo, but I think it's a wonderful experience. I also hope that my sisters who share the same illness with me can see my bravery and be inspired to live on." Jiang Duanduan said.
Ziniu News trainee reporter Yan Chunxu