Who is the most anxious in the world?

Young people who love beauty are set in it.

After thousands of years, Dong Shi Xiao frowned has been laughed at for thousands of years, but thinking about it today, she may just be a young lady who doesn't want to "reconcile with Su Yan".

  If it is said that Dong Shi only sees Xi Shi next door, he is still extremely anxious. Nowadays, social platforms are comparable to large-scale "beauty fairs". Even if you are naturally beautiful, there is always an anxiety suitable for you.

According to a survey by the China Youth School Media, nearly 60% of college students have appearance anxiety, and the proportion of girls who are dissatisfied with their appearance is much higher than that of boys.

  On the Internet, "beauty blessing techniques" cheat from time to time. Under the action of beauty filters and P-picture magic, beauties compete for beauty.

Looking up at the thick hair of others, and looking down at myself who was tired from overtime and bald, who can get rid of appearance anxiety and resolutely post the real photos of plain makeup on the Internet?

  There is a law in psychology. When people pass by a transparent glass house, they can't resist the urge to look in. There is always a magic power in an unobstructed space. The impulse comes from voyeurism and curiosity.

The Internet creates an illusion that the seemingly transparent life of others is actually full of elaborate dress-ups, and everyone is trying their best to show their best side.

Once you choose to contrast with a more refined "house", it is easy for young people to fall into a deep lack of self-confidence.

  On the one hand, the video platform holds high the banner of not being burdened by appearance and accepting the true self, on the other hand, it artificially creates topics and aggravates anxiety.

At the beginning of the event, some girls showed generously, what about dull skin and acne marks?

The message area is all affirmation and encouragement.

However, the "reverse operation" of the Internet celebrity's end soon turned the discussion of no makeup into a new appearance competition, and even turned into a witch hunt game to find out the "pseudo makeup" green tea girl.

  As netizens said, once people are entangled in "is this a real face or a fake face" and distinguish between "is this a real participation or cheating traffic" in the photo, their attention is doomed to lose focus.

Netizens have sharper eyes, and some people commented sharply. Isn't "reconciliation with Su Yan" a false proposition?

I have no grievances with my plain makeup, why should I reconcile with it?

Always taking and explaining things is disguised and muddy.

"I don't want to settle, I just want to appeal."

  Heart of beauty in everyone.

What people are really disgusted with is not the pursuit of beauty and efforts, but the endless push and confrontation.

A few years ago, the topic "No makeup is a prison break for Korean girls" sparked heated discussions.

To refute "shame without makeup" does not mean denying the right to make up.

No makeup and makeup are not the relationship between the needle and Maimang.

  People are just sounding the alarm. Once aesthetics turns to "justice in appearance" and a bad ethos of "facial features are more important than three views", ordinary people will be coerced by appearance anxiety and lose the strength to break free.

In the first episode of the female drama "Listen to Her", the protagonist's monologue is worth listening to, "Do you have to be tall, white and thin to be beautiful? What is beauty? What is ugliness? Who defines the standard of beauty? I didn't question tall, white and thin, I did. It's 'definitely'." In fact, as long as you follow your heart, you can wear makeup without makeup.

What really goes wrong is the "certainty" that deprives freedom of choice.

Looking at people with prejudiced glasses, no makeup is sloppy, self-abandoning, and makeup is to whitewash the surface and cover up defects.

This is not only an aesthetic intolerance, but also a cognitive defect.

  What we need is not to "reconcile with plain makeup", but to find the real "solution" and break the discipline and stare of the individual.

Only when everyone does not have to live in the standards of others can they find what they really want and live up to their unique charm.

  Bai Jingjing Source: China Youth Daily