Adults have two masks
one
Live in front of people
if nothing happened
gritted his teeth desperately
one
Vulnerability and Sensitivity
preoccupied
Emotionally broken down
Adults who haven't cried in the middle of the night
Don't talk about life
01 Adults can't cry out loud
The TV series "Heart Home" is on the air
"The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law" was once again put on the screen
Gu Qingyu, played by Tong Yao, has been harassed by her mother-in-law many times
face while eating
Don't let Gu Qingyu come
refuse to see her
Source: Official Weibo of the TV series "Heart Home"
in front of his son
Say goodbye to your friend's daughter
adults who were originally in a family relationship
Obviously did nothing wrong
will also be targeted
In the TV series "Life of the Intellectual"
Shen Ruoxin played by Qin Lan
being misunderstood at work
Being splashed with Coke and insulted in public
Screenshot of the TV series "Life of the Rational School"
hide in the toilet
set the alarm
Just give yourself 5 minutes to cry
In the little corner where no one can see
silently digest emotions
Screenshot of the TV series "Life of the Rational School"
turn out to be
working adults
Crying can't make a sound
02 The troubles of adults are everywhere
If loneliness has grades
That night alone at the doctor must count
"Beijing Women's Guide"
Chen Keyi, played by Qi Wei, has a high fever
Going to the hospital alone late at night
Source: Official Weibo of "Beijing Women's Guide"
A hand hangs a drip
A hand holding a medicine bottle
in the toilet
She can only ask an aunt to unbutton her
Screenshot of the TV series "Beijing Women's Guide"
The original wandering adult
Because of a little warmth from a stranger
secretly cry
In the TV series "I am fine in a foreign country"
There is an episode
Written among working women
The conflict between "work and childbirth"
company marketing executive
soon to have a baby
as she lay on an ambulance stretcher
Do not forget to remind colleagues to send her work report
Screenshot of the TV series "I am fine in a foreign country"
But even if she tries so hard
The company still arranged for someone else when she gave birth
to take her place
Screenshot of the TV series "I am fine in a foreign country"
for adults
A stable job means a stable income
Have a better life with financial support
In the TV series "Dear Myself"
Chen Yiming played by Zhu Yilong
facing unemployment
two weeks
He sent out nearly 50 job application emails
But basically nothing
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Self"
turn out to be
adult troubles
everywhere
03 Adults should learn to self-regulate
Mao was not easy to be a singer and worked as a nurse
He saw too many life and death in the hospital
Stress and emotions cannot be dealt with
late at night
he comes home from get off work
Encountered a hawker selling fried rice on the road
The boss asked Mao not easy
where do you work
Mao is not easy to answer
in hospital
the boss listened
Say
You have worked hard
Hair is not easy.
Image source: Mao Buyi's personal Weibo
Although only a short sentence
But let him suddenly understand
in the adult world
no one is easy
He's not easy
It's not easy for this boss who sets up a stall in the cold late night
It is not easy for all kinds of people who are struggling for life
after returning home
Mao Buyi wrote the song "A Corner of the Late Night"
Longing is a broken gem
Life is the dampness left by a heavy rain
04 The collapse of adults comes fast
These days
#adult trouble##adult collapse#
Frequently appear on the Internet
Screenshot of hot search on Weibo
in comment
The troubles of most netizens
Can't avoid work
Life
love
affection
friendship
...
Screenshot of Weibo comment
Life is like a play
play as life
sometimes think
Some "dog blood" bridges in film and television dramas
how can it happen to me
but turn off the phone
back to reality
You will find yourself having these troubles
earn money to support a family
Relationship maintenance
I just realized it's a drama
It's a piece of life
"Chicken feathers all over the place"
05 Feelings of joy and joy
In the variety show "Wonderful Flowers"
Periodic debate is
#The collapse of adults, do you want to hide it?
#
Proposition debater Fu Seoul's point of view is to hide
The collapse that cannot be hidden is just a scar
The hidden collapse is the medal
Screenshot of "Wonderful Flower"
Opposition debater Liu Yang believes that
don't hide
If the crash is the end of the world
then releasing it is a rebirth
Screenshot of "Wonderful Flower"
Sadness, joy, warmth and self-knowledge
born human
no one works hard
It's just that some people are used to not screaming pain
don't cry tired
But maybe in everyone's heart
There is a place in every city
It's called "the corner of the night"
where you and my story grow wildly
Put those lonely and complicated minds that no one shares
compose a poem
These are all aspects of life
Finally, I want to share with you
Writer Liu Yu's words
wish you good luck
if there is not
May you learn compassion in misfortune
May you be loved by many
if there is not
May you learn tolerance in loneliness
(Source: China News Network Author: Qi Tianci)