China News Service Client, Beijing, March 3 (Reporter Shangguan Yun) These days, the TV series "The World" has become a frequent visitor on Weibo's hot search list.

From ideals in life to marriage and family, it can always bring a lot of inspiration to people.

　　For example, Zhou Bingkun in the play is a kind, honest and ordinary little character.

The way he gets along with his father points out many truths in family relationships.

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　　In "The World", the relationship between Zhou Bingkun and his father seemed a little twisted.

Image source: Screenshot of the video of the TV series "The World"

　　In the play, the Zhou family lives in a city with "light characters".

Zhou Jiaer is always the "old-fashioned person" of the past. His father, Zhou Zhigang, is the backbone of the business in the unit. He has a strong personality and speaks well at home.

　　Compared with the beautiful brothers and sisters, Zhou Bingkun has no sense of existence.

At home, everything he does seems to be "nearly", his studies are not as good as his brothers and sisters, and his work is not decent enough at first.

　　He will feel inferior, and occasionally laugh at himself: What am I, a small worker in a soy sauce factory, I married a young wife who has no job and has a child; I am shameless and unimportant, I have embarrassed my parents.

　　But the father doesn't seem to care about his feelings.

The family went out to pay New Year's greetings, and the brothers and sisters were praised for their excellence. Zhou Zhigang was very happy, but he didn't notice that Zhou Bingkun was silently behind.

　　Zhou Bingkun wanted to satisfy his parents and get his father's approval. He has been working hard.

But his natural stubbornness made him not know how to explain this. After breaking up with his father, he did not write to his father for a long time.

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　　As a father, Zhou Zhigang didn't know how to get along with Zhou Bingkun.

Image source: Screenshot of the video of the TV series "The World"

　　Sometimes, the words he said were like sharp arrows, "Your brother and your sister have studied well since you were a child. Your grades in your class will always be counted backwards, don't you count?"

　　In a quarrel, Zhou Bingkun finally expressed his long-suppressed grievances and unwillingness, "If you don't comfort me and don't tell me, you will just sprinkle salt, what you say is offensive, and what hurts you is where you are..."

　　The father had no idea what his son was worried about. "What did I say?" "Is it the truth?" Zhou Bingkun couldn't control his emotions any longer, "Should the facts be told? Should the facts be told?"

　　In this way, Zhou Zhigang doesn't seem to love Zhou Bingkun.

In fact, when he heard some gossip, he stood by Zhou Bingkun for the first time to safeguard his son's interests and reputation.

　　The relationship between the father and son is deep, and what is lacking is serious communication and "talking well".

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　　Art comes from life.

In reality, there are many family relationships between parents and children, similar to Zhou Bingkun and his son.

　　Some netizens shared their own stories: his relationship with his father is somewhat similar to that of Zhou Bingkun and his son. They chatted many times, starting with concern and ending with endless disputes.

　　Once, two people talked about getting married and having children, and they had different opinions. At first, they could communicate calmly and communicate. After a while, his father became excited and reprimanded him for not understanding society, shortsighted, and selfish.

　　The netizen said that after the anger, he can understand that his father's starting point is good, but he can't express his feelings, "The other is that I can't let go of the parent's air, I always feel that I am ignorant, an ordinary child, and I don't have great knowledge. "

　　As time goes by, his relationship with his father has become a little more delicate, and he even feels awkward when he is alone, and he doesn't know what to say.

Later, both tried to improve the situation, but with little success.

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　　Some people say that the relationship between Zhou Bingkun and his father in "The World" is actually worth pondering.

Image source: Screenshot of the video of the TV series "The World"

　　There is a point of view that the closer people are, the easier it is to "not speak well".

Those unpleasant words are sometimes sarcasm and sarcasm blurted out, sometimes casual blows and denials, "You can't study well, what else can you do?"

　　In some families, it is not that parents do not love their children, and many estrangements in parent-child relationships are often caused by their inability to "talk well" to each other and poor communication.

　　Parents want their children to be successful, but it must be known that many children will eventually be ordinary.

Instead of engaging in some "verbal violence", it is better to respect the differences in children's talents, cultivate them attentively, communicate equally, and accompany their growth seriously.

　　As a child, learn to think from the perspective of parents and understand their anxiety and anxiety, which is also a compulsory course.

More encouragement and less irritability, as there is a saying, harmonious family relationship requires "speaking well".

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