friendly space

wrench approach

Amal El Minshawi

@amalalmenshawi@amalalmenshawi

October 14, 2021

Just like the pain of distance, getting too close is painful, even if it is out of love, fear or protection.. There is no harm in any relationship, no matter how deep it is from a distance.

Relationships are the most moderate in life, but we do not realize this until we are stressed by a brother who refuses to protect, or a husband who defends his absolute freedom, or a son who opens his arms to life without restraint, or a friend who does not want to tell us his entire story.

We think that we can continue with the same feelings always, until the birds surprise us that their wings are strong and they can go to another land, and other lovers share them with us, after we have lived for an eternity, we think that they are ours alone.

Pride, inheritance, and upbringing refuse only to bond and unite with our loved ones, otherwise there is no love or interest from our point of view, until the pain of rejection awakens us.

Sometimes we forget ourselves for the sake of others, so that closeness becomes a daily burden that sickens us and disturbs our days, without realizing that we are the reason when we do not recognize privacy, even if we are family, or that the time is not appropriate to talk as long as we are friends.

There are times when we hate life and turn away from ourselves, and we want to isolate from everyone, so why do we deny others not wanting us when they go through such times, all of that and more than negative feelings that a son, husband, brother or friend can go through, here we must learn. How can we just support without getting too close, or asking too much pressure, as long as the other side doesn't want to?

Life sometimes imposes on us what does not meet the desires of our hearts, but we must convince ourselves that there is no permanent condition, and that change is a universal year for continuity.

Yes, this may be painful within our narrow circles of relationship, but such the human psyche and its complexities, sometimes force us to distance ourselves from those we love when we think they need us most.

The pain of approaching is more severe than the pain of distance, as it is like our shadow, there is no salvation from it, and there is no acceptance or coexistence with it except by understanding the needs of those around us, respecting their private space and their negative feelings, and the times of their sorrows when they only need themselves.

Keep a distance for yourselves, no matter what love is, a distance that protects you from the pain of approaching, and leaves a space for the other to exercise his freedom and gather his dispersal, and at the same time he sees your essence and knows your destiny.

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