[Commentary] On September 22, the 2021 7th Ci Xiao Culture Festival kicked off in Hangzhou, Zhejiang.
This year's Mercy and Filial Piety Culture Festival created a series of activities such as the establishment of Merci Filial Bus, a Merci Filial Comics Commemorative Exhibition, commending Merci Filial Persons/Groups in 2021, Appointment of Merci Filial Culture Ambassadors in 2021, and Holding Mercy Filial Retirement Forum. Directly reach people's hearts and infiltrate the people; let the voice of "kindness and filial piety" stretch for thousands of miles and spread overseas.
This year, Deng Yaping, Olympic champion and table tennis grand slam winner, was appointed as the "2021 Mercy and Filial Culture Ambassador".
During the interview, Deng Yaping told reporters that the stories of the nine filial and filial figures of 2021 this year are very touching. She hopes to promote them in her own way, so that more people can participate in them and help more people.
[Concurrent] Deng Yaping, Olympic champion and table tennis grand slam winner
Let’s (event) some points. I think as an organizer, I think the points I found are still very special and very special. I think it’s really touching. Sitting there today, I’m really the one who came up. It’s really touching to cry. I think it’s amazing. They’re so amazing. They encountered this kind of situation that is difficult for others to understand. So I think they’re really amazing, and then they can come out again, and at the same time. It's great to be able to help others, it's simply, it's really amazing.
Of course, I also hope that through my own activities in various aspects, and other forms, we can promote more organizations like us or these individuals, and then let everyone know more about them. I think every If a person gives a little love, this may be different.
[Explanation] Talking about kindness and filial piety, Deng Yaping introduced that respecting the old and loving the young is the most basic criterion of their family. While she respects the elderly and teaches her son by precept and deeds, she also gives both kindness and gratitude to her son's education.
[Concurrent] Deng Yaping, Olympic champion and table tennis grand slam winner
I mainly talk about inheriting the education culture of our traditional family in China, because our family is still a relatively traditional family, respecting the old and loving the young, this is the most basic criterion for a family.
So we must teach children to respect the old, because the old people live with us, so this is actually quite good. I think that after living with the old people, he can see how we treat the old people. In fact, it is to teach the children by precepts and deeds. , And then the child knows how to honor the elderly and how to help the elderly. As we speak to the children, I personally think that we have both love and strictness at the same time, that is, strictness and love may complement each other, because Blindly loving, I feel that if you have too much, I will dote on it. On the contrary, it is not good, but blindly harsh without encouragement, maybe the child's psychological pressure is too much.
[Commentary] Deng Yaping said that she has always used the concept of ordinary family to educate her children, hoping that her son will work hard on his own outside, and filial piety and love his relatives at home.
Therefore, she uses sports to hone her son, hoping that through table tennis, her child will grow into a strong person who will not give up, not give up, and can calmly face winning or losing.
[Concurrent] Deng Yaping, Olympic champion and table tennis grand slam winner
To be frank, I think that children’s lives are too happy now. Life in our era is definitely much harder than them, but it’s also because in a difficult environment, I feel more able to exercise a person, so I say For children nowadays, I prefer to use a thing with a better margin of safety, which can make him suffer a little bit more.
In the first place, you must endure hardship regularly. You can't endure the hardship. Athletes can't do it. So I think why I have to insist on letting children practice in sports, or let him practice table tennis. I think I'm in sports training. In the process, it actually exercises a person very, very much, exercises a person’s willpower, and then executes a goal. Don’t give up, don’t give up. If you fall, you have to stand up again and get better at the same time. In the face of loss, you can face victory. I really don’t necessarily say that he has to win the world championship unless he has really made such efforts to that extent, including his willingness and even his talent. But I personally prefer to let him hone his character in this process, the quality things I just mentioned.
[Explanation] Finally, Deng Yaping believes that kindness and filial piety are the foundation of traditional Chinese culture and the "fundamental" of Chinese people. Vigorously promote the culture of kindness and filial piety to promote people's virtues such as respecting the elders, loving the young, and respecting and loving each other, which is also of great importance to the construction of a harmonious society. help.
[Concurrent] Deng Yaping, Olympic champion and table tennis grand slam winner
Compassion and filial piety, especially the traditional Chinese culture is our nation. The root of our Chinese people. We must not forget our roots. This is the relationship between our roots and our roots. So I think we must vigorously promote compassion and filial piety. , If we promote more such kindness and filial piety, this kind of respect for everyone, the habit of respecting the old and loving the young, then this kind of mutual respect and love between people , Then I think his whole social atmosphere may be changed, I think it must be vigorously publicized.
Shen Yishan, Zang Chengeng and Shao Yuren report from Hangzhou
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