China News Service, Beijing, June 17 (Reporter Shangguanyun) Wang Xifeng is probably the only one who can get out of the circle with his "savvy" and "smart and strong".
She has decisiveness and skill beyond ordinary people. Whenever she encounters difficult people or difficult things, Sister Feng will simply break her hands. She is also the most down-to-earth among a group of wives and ladies. She is always seen when she gibbers and greets her. , Familiar and kind.
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It is a pity that such an interesting person failed to manage his life well and ended in tragedy.
To a large extent, she was responsible for this tragedy.
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Jia Mansion is a big family with a large population, just like a small society in operation.
In Rongguo Mansion, Sister Feng is clear-headed and vigorous.
For her family's food and clothing, weddings and funerals... Basically, she must decide.
When Zhou Rui’s family brought Grandma Liu to beg for a meeting, they had to pinch sister Feng to eat, “If you’re late, there will be more people going on, and it’s hard to talk.”
The one that best reflects Sister Feng's superb management skills is the "Associate of Ning Guofu."
When Qin Keqing passed away, another hostess, You Shi, said he was ill, and the house was in chaos.
Under Baoyu's recommendation, Sister Feng received the Ningguo Mansion's matching card to help prepare the funeral.
She quickly figured out the reasons for the chaos in Ningguo Mansion: mixed population, missing things, no special management, impending excuses, etc., and quickly thought of a way to deal with it, dividing the servants into different shifts according to the roster, and performing their duties.
For those who made mistakes, she set the rules, "Wrong me a little bit, I don’t care who has the face, who is the shameless, a case of innocence." And she must do her word, hit the late person 20 boards, leather Lose one month's money.
Since then, Ningguo Mansion has become orderly.
She had a clear view of the disputes in the Rongguo Mansion and the personalities of the people, and she also knew that she had to take precautions.
When she was visiting the housekeeper of Chunchun, Sister Feng asked Ping'er, "She must start with me now, if she wants to refute me, don’t argue...don’t think about being afraid that I’m faceless, and her It's not good if you get angry."
No wonder some people say that she has an exquisite heart and is a veritable "strong woman".
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Regardless of the talents of the family, Wang Xifeng is also the most interesting one among the hostess of Jia's house. He is more lively than Mrs. Wang, smarter than Mrs. Xing, more lovely than You, and more marketable than Qin Keqing.
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As long as she is there, the more deserted scenes can be more lively: during the Lantern Festival, tell a joke to make the whole family laugh; Jia's mother gets angry, plays cards with her, gags, and finally the old lady's laughing hands spilled the cards on the table and pushed them. The mandarin duck called, "Tear his mouth!"
Therefore, when Ms. Feng was absent from the Mid-Autumn Festival banquet, Jia's mother sighed with emotion, "Feng girl is sick again, and she is talking and laughing alone, which is worth ten people: It can be seen that things are always difficult to perfect in the world!"
In silence, she can resolve embarrassment for others.
Grandma Li made a riot in Yihongyuan, and everyone was helpless.
But Sister Qiaofeng finished the calculation of the win or loss in the room, and she heard a lot of noise behind her. After a little calculation, she knew that Mother Li was angry and attacked because of the loss of money.
"Good mother, don't be angry. The old lady only likes it for a day under the big festival. You are an old man, and others are loud, so you have to take care of them. Don't you know the rules, and yell here to make the old lady angry? ?"
Firstly, I will praise Mother Li for her age and morality, and then explain the stakes, suggesting that she should not make the old lady upset, "The hot pheasant in my house, come and have a drink with me." The problem was solved quickly. A trouble disappeared invisible.
In life, such a person who is able to adapt to changes is often envied by being able to achieve "little flowers in the dark" in any predicament.
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However, Sister Feng, who is top-notch and strong in everything, is not very happy.
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The servant was afraid and hated her. Her husband and her looked like a divorce. The real mother-in-law, Mrs. Xing, didn’t wait to see her, so she had to run on her when she seized the opportunity. In Mrs. Wang’s eyes, it’s not a big deal for her niece to be wronged when it comes to conflict of interest .
When Jia's mother celebrated her birthday, the two women in Rongguo Mansion offended You, sister Feng learned that they quickly dealt with them.
The method was correct, but after Mrs. Xing found out, she deliberately picked up people for a long time at night to intercede in public, and gave her daughter-in-law a shame.
Sister Feng was embarrassed and angry, her face turned purple.
You Shi didn't appreciate it, "Even I don't know. You have too many things." After weighing the complicated interpersonal relationship, Mrs. Wang said:
"What your wife said. Even Jin's wife and daughter-in-law are not outsiders, and they don't need these pompous courtesies. The old lady's future is important, so let them go." After saying that, they ordered the two women to be released.
It was originally a good intention, but made myself not human inside and out.
The more Sister Feng thought about it, the more sad she became.
I didn't dare to let anyone know, so I could only go back to the room and hide and cry secretly.
As tough as Sister Feng, she will be miserably abused by life, and the collapse is a momentary matter.
When she was seriously ill, she once reflected on herself, "If I am selfishly concealed, I am too poisonous, and I should take a step back."
But it was too late.
Youshi, who was watching coldly, had already seen everything, "I advise you to keep a little bit better, and spill it out when it's too full."
The fate of Sister Feng is like the painting in the verdict: a female phoenix stands on an iceberg, seemingly proud to climb the peak, but the foundation is not reliable, and she does not know how to maintain it.
When Jia's House fell and the iceberg melted, it was also when she was completely lost.
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Even so, many people envied Sister Feng’s skills, saying that if she was born in modern society, she must be a "workplace bonkers", but they never realized that she has shortcomings in character and life: talented but not virtuous, unsatisfied, easy to understand. complacent.
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She never seemed to have any principles in obtaining money. In Mantou'an, she collected three thousand silver and took over the lawsuit, forcing Li Shoubei's family to divorce, indirectly killing Zhang Jinge and Li Shoubei's son.
While showing off her power, she lived up to the trust of Mrs. Wang and Jia’s mother. She withdrew the monthly money in advance, used it to lend, and then accumulated other odds and ends. Ping'er said, “It’s only for him to benefit his own money. Less than a year, thousands of silver."
For Jia Lian’s two new favorites, You Er Sister and Qiu Tong, Feng Sister worked hard to trick You Er Sister into the Grand View Garden, planning to kill someone with a sword, "When Qiu Tong kills You Er Sister, I will kill Qiutong again." During the operation, Sister You was forced to cut off all thoughts and committed suicide by swallowing gold.
She doesn't lack life experience, but she doesn't know how to be strong and eager to have principles. She hardly puts the words "being generous with others" in her heart.
The tragedy of Sister Feng is related to her feudal era and her personality.
In Jia Lian's words, "it is not a good thing to be too strong," not to mention that she is clever but lacks a big picture.
The later bitter fruit has already laid the groundwork.
The agency was too clever to calculate Qingqing's life.
Too much force and lack of greed in everything can easily deceive oneself.
While moving forward, life sometimes has to retreat as advancement, and we have to look away lightly.
Kindness is always a plus in the rule of survival.
In a long period of time, no matter who you meet or what you encounter, you have to be in awe, know how to make a profit and loss, and you can move freely.