"We often hear" When it's yes, it's yes, when it's no, it's no ", but in practice, how do we do it?
For Louise Delavier, co-founder of the En avant tout (s) collective, the notion of consent sometimes requires some clarification.
During a reconciliation with a person, in the evening for example, it is perhaps difficult to know if one is authorized to try to go further.
For Louise Delavier, the solution is simple: when in doubt, you have to ask and make sure that the desire is mutual.
During an intimate moment, communication is also essential to know the desires of the other, the desired practices, the things not to do.
In a couple, Louise Delavier also advises daring to talk about sexuality, orally or even in writing, in order to get to know the desires of his or her partner.
In case of refusal, it is important to know how to manage your disappointment or frustration, and to find a way to express your emotion without making the person feel guilty.
In this video produced by our partner Brut, Louise Delavier explains more about the best ways to react.
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