[Explanation] Fu Zhiyong is a full-time male lawyer at the Women's Rights Protection Service Center of the Women's Federation of Lanzhou City, Gansu Province. This is his fifth year as a full-time lawyer.
For five years, my daily work has been to face all kinds of family trivialities and conflicts.
Recently, the reporter met at the Lanzhou Women’s Federation, Fu Zhiyong, who was conducting family mediation.
He told reporters that men are more rational in resolving family conflicts, and logically help women analyze problems, using the perspective of an onlooker to solve problems more accurately.
At first, the family members did not understand and worried that a big man would be caused by such work. He said that he saw many family conflicts and understood women’s thinking and thoughts, so he would avoid doing things that bore his family. Very harmonious.
[Concurrent] Fu Zhiyong, Lawyer of Lanzhou Women's Federation Women's Rights Protection Service Center
The advantage is our role, which may be helpful to us. First of all, we are also a married man, and then we are also a husband, which may be more understandable. It is a woman in the family, and the confusion she encounters, put herself in the position They can think about it.
[Explanation] After going through thousands of mediations, Fu Zhiyong has gradually established his own working method from "difficult to figure out" at the beginning to now "there are understandable reasons behind every family disagreement". If you have won the trust of the “helper”, you will feel a sense of accomplishment.
[Concurrent] Fu Zhiyong, Lawyer of Lanzhou Women's Federation Women's Rights Protection Service Center
Sometimes we feel that we can help a person, which is a very happy thing. Another thing is that after so many women come, they can tell their own inner words and contradictions and open their hearts to you. Said that it was originally a kind of trust for us, and we felt that it was a good thing to be able to help them so that they could get out of their pain and resolve their conflicts.
[Explanation] After get off work, in order not to miss any hotline, Fu Zhiyong transferred the rights protection hotline to his mobile phone, 24 hours a day throughout the year. Even if he received a call in the early morning, he still listened carefully to each other’s daily routines. It's short.
Women are the cornerstones of society and family stability. Behind every trivial matter of family conflicts, the "other power" who stands on the front line of women's work like Fu Zhiyong also needs to work day and night.
Gao Ying Gao Kangdi reports from Lanzhou, Gansu
Editor in charge: [Ji Xiang]