Bringing 88-year-old grandma to take up wedding photos and adopting a girl: I want to keep her most beautiful look
Deng Lian and Grandma
Deng Lian, a Dazhou girl, was abandoned by her biological parents when she was born. The 61-year-old Wang Congying took her home and raised her by farming.
Now 27-year-old Deng Lian is married and married. Although the two are grandparents from age, Deng Lian calls Wang Congying grandma, but to her, Wang Congying is more like a mother, giving her a second life and sending her to school. , Raise her to grow up.
Recently, Deng Lian took her 88-year-old grandma to take a special set of "wedding photos", which moved countless netizens for a while.
On March 6, a reporter from Chengdu Commercial Daily-Red Star News contacted Deng Lian and talked about the original intention of taking the photo. She said: Grandma has worked hard all her life, and she did not hold a ceremony when she was young when she got married.
She wanted to keep her grandma's most beautiful look by taking "wedding photos".
1 child
Abandoned by biological parents
Grandma raised her like a mother
"88-year-old grandma, eating hot pot and braised pork is called a fragrant." Open Deng Lian's circle of friends, half of the content is related to grandma: take grandma out, take pictures of grandma, cook for grandma... Deng Lian wrote in the circle of friends: Without sunshine, there would be no warmth of the days; without you, there would be no me now; only your kindness of dripping water, but I did not repay with the spring.
Deng Lian, 27, is from a rural village in Dazhou, Sichuan. She was abandoned by her biological parents when she was born. The unrelated grandma Wang Congying adopted her to her current family.
At that time, his grandmother was 61 years old, but his stepfather had not yet married. A few years later, he got married and gave birth to a younger sister. He thought he would be taken care of by a "mother", but he did not expect that the stepmother would leave when the younger sister had just reached the full moon.
Deng Lian grew up in an unsound family without the care of her mother. It was difficult to get the recognition of her family because she was fostered and her grandmother brought her up.
"I have always lived with my grandmother, and my sister lives with my dad. Although she is a grandmother in her age, she has played more of the role of a mother, taking care of me like a real mother to her own children." Deng Lian said. The conditions at home are not good, and there is no TV. I just go to other people's homes. I eat only one meal a week. Better fruits are usually not eaten. Grandma depends on growing crops to support her. Stepfather works outside to earn tuition.
Despite the difficulties, grandma did her best to give her a good life.
"Grandma often said that although expensive things cannot be eaten often, you must know the taste so that you won't be without knowledge in the future, so even if you can only buy an apple, grandma will buy it back and let me taste it."
2 Growing up
The grace of nurturing is not rewarded
Take "wedding photos" to leave good memories
Raised by her grandmother, Deng Lian grew up to work in society. Now 27-year-old Deng Lian has married and started a family and is working hard with her lover in Chengdu, while her grandmother is 88 years old.
Due to busy work, I can only go home once or twice a year, and I rarely spend time with my grandma.
On weekdays, she who cared about her grandma could only use the phone to greet her, "How is grandma's health? What kind of food did she have today? Where did she go to play?"
After the Spring Festival this year, Deng Lian returned to her hometown in Dazhou and proposed to her grandmother the idea of taking wedding photos. Although grandma didn't know what wedding photos were at the time, she was ignorant, but she happily agreed.
So, she and her sister came to the photo studio with her grandma. When her grandma put on her makeup and saw herself in the mirror, she no longer knew herself, and said, "There is another old woman in the mirror, which one is it?" Deng Lian said From making up, trying on clothes to shooting, grandma was very happy during the whole process. Although grandma didn't know what she was going to do when taking pictures, the whole process was full of joy.
"Let grandma experience the wedding dress and the appearance of wearing a Chinese dress, leaving a good memory, let her know that life is getting better and better now, she can experience some better things." Deng Lian said, living conditions in the past No, grandma never held a ceremony when she got married when she was young.
She wanted to keep her grandma's most beautiful look by taking "wedding photos".
On February 22, when she got the filming, she put the photos on TV and showed them to her grandma. Grandma was very happy.
3 Gratitude
Love is not in blood, take grandma to Chengdu, and spend a lifetime in return
Recently, Deng Lian took her grandma from Dazhou to Chengdu, and took her grandma to check in Taikoo Li and People's Park.
When we walked to Tianfu Square, the 88-year-old grandmother said innocently like a child: "This dam is really big!" Because the elderly did not dare to let her grandma fly by plane, Deng Lian and her husband pushed her grandma to Chengdu in a wheelchair. "Airport Flower Field", watch the plane take off and land up close.
Seeing the plane, grandma still said cheerfully: "It turns out that the plane is so big, I dare not ride! I dare not ride!!"
Deng Lian said that for her, the relationship between the two is more like a mother-daughter. Grandma's care and nurturing cannot be repaid with words. She hopes to make her grandma healthy and happy through what she can do. "As long as she is happy, I will Happy!" At present, her greatest wish is for her grandmother to be healthy. She can take her to various places for more walks, take a look, experience a different life, and accompany her more.
Love is not in blood relationship. Deng Lian and grandma are not grandparents than grandparents. A simple and kind-hearted parent raises children and grows up, and the one who does his best to give back.
Chengdu Commercial Daily-Red Star News reporter Zhang Zhaoting
According to the interviewee