The love behind a "daughter": a high school classmate suddenly passed away, she has taken care of her parents for more than 30 years

  This is a warm story spanning more than 30 years.

  In Miyi County, Panzhihua City, Sichuan, there is a ill-fated old couple.

Their daughter unfortunately passed away more than 30 years ago, which almost collapsed the two of them and lost the motivation to live.

Fortunately, they also have a filial "daughter" named Luo Chaohui.

  Luo Chaohui is a high school classmate of the old couple's daughter Tang Xiaoling. From the day Tang Xiaoling was buried, she secretly decided to do her filial piety for her deceased classmate and take care of her parents for the rest of her life.

Luo Chaohui called the two old people "Uncle and Niang Niang", and the two old people have always fondly called her "daughter."

  For more than 30 years, Luo Chao treated the two old people like his parents.

When the two old people were full of silver hair and sickness, Luo Chao would seek medical advice for them, and piss and pee... with his own actions, he explained what "a promise of gold" is.

  Last year, the "Niang Niang" passed away, and Luo Chao will send her to the end.

Now, "Uncle" is 83 years old and Luo Chao will take good care of him.

On January 13, the 52-year-old Luo Chao told the Chengdu Commercial Daily-Red Star News reporter, “They are not other people, they are the parents of my classmates, as well as my parents. Taking care of them is my responsibility as a'daughter'.” 

  Promise

  Filial piety for the dead classmates

  Take care of her parents for a lifetime

  Back 30 years ago, Luo Chaohui and Tang Jianrong's daughter Tang Xiaoling were studying at Miyi County Senior High School, and they were classmates.

"In current terms, she and I are best friends." In school, Luo Chaohui and Tang Xiaoling went in and out, inseparable, and helped each other in both study and life.

  At noon on September 2, 1986, Tang Xiaoling, who was returning home from school, was delivering food to her mother Luo Yaorong who worked on the railway. Unfortunately, she was hit in the back of the head by a sleeper from the train's freight car and was killed on the spot.

  Afterwards, Luo Chaohui organized the students in the class to make donations and visited Tang Xiaoling's parents on behalf of the whole class.

  On the day of Tang Xiaoling's burial, Tang's mother couldn't bear the reality of the sudden death of her lover's daughter. She ran to commit suicide by lying on the rails. Whoever went up to discourage her would stone her.

There was the sound of a train whistling not far away, and everyone was at a loss.

At this moment, Luo Chaohui ignored the stone thrown by Tang's mother, and ran up quickly enduring the pain, hugged her, and rescued her.

Tang's mother's pain deeply touched Luo Chaohui. From that moment on, she secretly decided to do her filial piety for her deceased classmate and take care of her parents for the rest of her life.

  During that time, Luo Chaohui would visit Tang Xiaoling's parents almost every day after school, help them with housework, walk with them and chat, and make them happy.

  Gradually, Mother Tang walked out of the shadow of losing her beloved daughter, and she often joked: "A little while later, you are such a good girl, Xiaoling is gone. If you could be my daughter, how nice it would be!"

  Luo Chaohui smiled knowingly and said: "Okay, I have already regarded you two as my own uncles and mothers. As long as I can make you healthy and happy, I will always be your daughter!" After speaking, Luo Chaohui called After the uncle and the empress, tears of happiness circled in the eyes of the two old men.

  In 1987, Luo Chaohui was recruited to work in the Finance Office of Deshi Township, Miyi County. He was a hired employee. The salary was relatively low at the beginning and economic conditions were not good.

Tang Jianrong recalled that when he and his wife were in a bad mood, the "daughter" Luo Chao would tell them jokes and do housework to make them happy; as long as they were sick, Luo Chao would go to the doctor and get medicine after running. Will help them buy clothes and give them food...

  For more than 30 years, every Chinese New Year or the birthday of two elderly people, Luo Chaohui will insist on buying new clothes or daily necessities for the elderly.

  Always

  Some people question her

  She used more than 30 years of service to answer

  At one time, Luo Chao could not breathe under the pressure of life, economy and other aspects. Relatives and friends always did not understand why she respected the two elderly people so much. Some even thought that she might be looking for real estate or family property.

In fact, anyone who understands the situation knows that Tang Jianrong and his wife do not own a house, let alone any so-called family property. The house is rented in an old 40 square meter house next to the Miyi County Railway Station.

  In the face of doubt, Luo Chaohui never had the idea of ​​giving up taking care of the two elders. She said, “Who won’t be old? Who doesn’t want to have a son and a daughter to enjoy the family? But the two old people are unfortunate. They lost their daughter because of I, they can persist in living to this day, how can I bear to leave them alone? I don't care about them, I am sorry for the classmates who died, and I am sorry for my conscience."

  In 2015, Tang's mother unfortunately had a cerebral infarction, which led to hemiplegia, unable to walk, and unable to take care of herself. Luo Chaohui often visited her.

  During that time, Luo Chaohui would go to the hospital to take care of the elderly as long as he was free, taking her shit and urine, taking a bath and changing clothes, helping the elderly take a walk outside for exercise, and telling the elderly some happy things in life.

  After the old man was discharged from the hospital, Luo Chao would seek medical advice everywhere in order to treat the old man. As long as she heard where there are doctors or medicines specializing in treating paralyzed patients, she was never afraid of the distance and always tried her best.

  Over the years, the two old men felt guilty and wanted to refuse Luo Chaohui's help.

Once, Mother Tang was hospitalized because she didn't want to burden her. She told her "daughter" Luo Chaohui for two or three days in the hospital.

  This incident made Luo Chaohui a little "angry". She said to the two old people: "Auntie, you don't have to have any more thoughts. From the day Xiaoling left, you have been my relatives, daughter Taking care of mom and dad is justified!"

  lifetime

  For easy care

  She repeatedly proposed "live together"

  In the Deshi Town district, many neighbors knew that Luo Chao would take care of the two elderly people, but they did not know the relationship between them.

  In recent years, Luo Chaohui has rarely mentioned her relationship with the two elderly people to colleagues in the unit.

During the reporter's interview, two staff members of the Deshi Township government said that they did not know that Luo Chao would take care of the parents of his classmates. One of them said, "I remember she mentioned it once that the two elderly people belonged to her." Godfather godmother'."

  In 2017, Tang's mother's illness relapsed again. Although she was treated by the hospital, her walking was very difficult and she was unable to take care of herself.

Uncle Tang is also very old, suffering from chronic diseases such as severe pulmonary heart disease and hypertension.

Although Luo Chaohui often visits the two elders to help them with housework, washing and cooking, Deshi Town is more than 60 kilometers away from Miyi County. Luo Chaohui asks the two elders to follow her to live in Deshi Town for easy care.

But many times the proposal was rejected by Uncle Tang.

  In 2018, Luo Chaohui retired from work in Deshi Community, Deshi Town.

Luo Chaohui has more time. He often visits the two elderly people in Miyi County, and also picks them up to live in their home in Deshi Town.

  In February 2020, Tang's mother fell ill again and was hospitalized. Luo Chaohui spent more than 20 days in the hospital nursing.

However, as soon as Mother Tang was discharged from the hospital, Uncle Tang was hospitalized again. Luo Chaohui was busy around the hospital for more than a month.

  On Qingming Festival in 2020, Mother Tang passed away and was taken back to Longchang's hometown in Neijiang by her nephew for burial.

  After Tang's mother passed away, Tang's father returned to live in his hometown in Wutongqiao District, Leshan.

"I often call Uncle Tang and ask him to come back to Mi Yilai to live with us, but he said it's good to be in his hometown." In fact, Luo Chaohui knew in his heart that Uncle Tang didn't want to cause her trouble.

"For Uncle Tang, returning to live in Miyi County, he will also see things and think about people, so he respects Uncle Tang's wishes to live in his hometown." Luo Chaohui said that she plans to visit Leshan in the near future to see Uncle Tang.

  Chengdu Commercial Daily-Red Star News reporter Jiang Long