Student work becomes parent work?

How to solve it?

  Listen to the editor and reporter of our newspaper talk about how to do a good home-school linkage

  Xiaobian Sui Sui Nian

  On December 10th, the Ministry of Education held a press conference. In response to the issue of "preventing students’ homework from turning into parent’s homework", the Ministry of Education stated that it would be necessary for teachers to assign punitive homework, require parents to complete or correct homework, etc. Strictly.

  Regarding children's learning, how should parents and teachers take their own responsibilities?

How to do a good job of home-school linkage and provide better education to children at different levels?

I have something to say.

  Planning/All Media Editors of Guangzhou Daily Zhang Yu and Cao Teng

  By Lin Lin, Du Juan, Liu Xiaoxing, Tao Kaihe, All Media Reporters of Guangzhou Daily

  Photo: Su Yunhua and Qiu Weirong, all-media reporters of Guangzhou Daily

Good communication, parents should not be too involved in school education

  Many parents have the experience of helping to make Mid-Autumn Festival lanterns when their children are in kindergarten.

It was also from this time that the parents started the "accompanying reading" course of cooperating with teachers for more than 10 years.

It is said to be accompanying students. In addition to taking care of the children's daily life, the most important task is to complete various tasks assigned by the teacher-such tasks are often assigned to students on the surface, but in fact they are handed over to the supernatural parents behind the students.

  A friend couldn't help but vomit during a party. The school wanted to make handmade picture albums for the children. About three days before the deadline, the task was assigned to her children.

The friend happily took the job, organized the children and husband to work until 3 o'clock in the middle of the night, and integrated the scattered paintings of the children in the class into a book, and handed in the picture book beautifully the next day.

But I never thought that the head teacher did not accept the goods because the level was far less than that of a certain class-and a certain class prepared for this work weeks in advance, organized and planned, but she was only "abstracted halfway" and was in danger.

The class teacher put forward the exact request, but only given half a day, it is almost impossible to meet the request.

So she spent another night all night, recruited various professional helpers, and finally produced a work that could only reach the class teacher's pass line.

  It is understandable that parents from all walks of life devote their resources to schools and students.

However, without measuring the abilities of students, making more demands, knowing that the "test" is not the abilities of the students, but the abilities of the parents; the practice that should be completed by the teacher to guide the children has become the responsibility of the parents. Flowing to deal with, lost the original intention of education.

Parents thank the teachers for their hard work in nurturing their children, and at the same time hope for more interconnection, in fact, they should not be involved in too much school education.

(Lin Lin)

  Children’s homework, look and cherish

  There are 5th grade children in my family. Starting from 1st grade, I basically check the children’s homework every day, listen to the children’s endorsement, and help them modify the composition.

Although I am not enjoying it, I think this is what a parent should do.

  I think that showing children homework and caring about their children's learning is what most parents can do now, and they are doing it. After all, children are their own.

However, parents should be voluntary to watch homework and supervise their children's learning, and should not be forced by the school or the teacher.

Once a parent does not correct the homework, he is "deserved of death", and he is even criticized and humiliated in public occasions like the parent group.

This kind of teacher who thinks he is superior is really undesirable.

  Hope that children gain more knowledge and make greater progress is the common wish of parents and teachers; correcting homework is not only the teacher's job, but also the duty of parents.

Everyone puts their positions in order to get things done together.

  There are a lot of stories about parents tutoring their children to do homework on the Internet. I like to read them. "If you don’t do your homework, be kind and filial, do your homework." When everyone is "jumping", it seems that my family is messy. It's nothing more.

  But in fact, the days when you can "jump around" with your children are not enough.

In the upper grades of elementary school, the authority of parents in looking at homework drops sharply, and the child's sense of autonomy begins to soar: You tell him this is the case, and he said to you: the teacher said otherwise!

And even though everyone has a higher education, they have to admit that the homework is becoming less and less read. Why do parents download xx search questions and xx help on their mobile phones?

  Looking back, you will find that this is a period of time when you grow up with your child, and it's so warm.

Your child's homework, let's take a look and cherish it.

(Du Juan)

Streamline the homework of "entering campus" and relax the constraints for teachers and parents

  Speaking of the topic of correcting homework, first of all I want to thank the children's teachers.

When the baby was in the first grade, the characters were quite "individual", with different shapes and many pinyin.

When I look at his homework, I often have to guess and mislead.

But every day when the homework is posted, the teacher can find that the teacher is very serious in marking. The horizontal writing of this character is long, and the vertical writing of the character is short, and the teacher can circle it.

There are more than 40 children in a class, and ordinary people have long been blinded.

The teacher's patience and meticulousness are really touching.

  In the past three years, although teachers in various subjects have never asked parents to mark homework, many parents, including me, will take the initiative to make corrections.

Especially in the third grade, I will read the small diary that the child writes every day, and communicate with him where he writes well and what needs improvement.

I have to check the English and Chinese homework after he finishes writing, and let him correct the wrong words or words in time.

If you don't care about it at all, and wait for the teacher to make corrections the next day, I always feel that the effect is not very good.

Elementary school is the stage to lay the foundation and develop habits. Even if the teacher does not require it, as long as conditions permit, I think parents still have to eat more snacks, and the home and school work together to lay the foundation for the growth of their children.

When the child goes to middle school, I think I want to correct the homework in science, but I will be unable to do so.

I don't mind having more sense of existence while I can contribute a little bit to the baby's learning.

After a few years, if you are too weak, let's be the logistics minister wholeheartedly.

  I think that what parents really dislike is not the correction of the homework itself, but the behavior of individual teachers completely transferring the responsibility of marking the homework to the parents.

There is also a kind of homework. I believe that teachers and parents feel a little helpless, that is, there are too many "campus" tasks.

Many of these "campus" tasks have to be completed on mobile phones, and some of the content is not interesting enough.

These tasks are pressured on the school and the teacher, and the teacher urges the parents to accompany the child to complete it. In fact, everyone feels that it is meaningless.

I hope to streamline too many "campus" homework, so that teachers and parents can relax.

(Liu Xiaoxing)

To solve the problem of correcting homework, reduce the amount of homework

  I think to solve the problem of correcting homework, the most important problem is to reduce the absolute amount and let the children relax.

Now when I see my big treasure, he often does his homework at ten o'clock at once. As long as he said he was too slow in the past, he immediately said how many homework he had today.

If the amount of homework is too large, the original purpose of the homework is lost: to consolidate knowledge.

Children have become homework in order to complete their homework, causing countless pain to themselves and their parents.

In this case, it is almost impossible to manage homework well.

  Secondly, controlling the mental state and learning state in the homework process is an important focus of managing children.

Presumably all parents have experienced their children’s extraordinary ability to grind: Dad, I want to drink water; Dad, I want to pee; Daddy, I want to pee-didn’t you just pee, why didn’t you pee together? ?

All kinds of confusing behaviors make parents almost crazy.

If the child continues to be unhappy, parents must pay close attention and find ways to adjust the child's psychology.

  Third, proper home-school linkage, especially positive linkage, is an important way to control children's homework.

In some home-school linkages, teachers often complain to parents that the child has not completed the homework or there is a problem with the homework. Parents are requested to cooperate in solving the problem.

Often, when parents hear this statement, they will immediately become angry, and sometimes it may even turn into a small-scale family war.

Therefore, why can't we have more positive interactions? Discover the advantages of children and encourage progress to make learning and homework an interesting game.

  Finally, homework is very destructive to parents.

Just a few days ago, I discovered that the characters of my family’s Dabao were inclined at a 45-degree angle, and I emphasized this problem many times.

So, yelling in anger, only to find that his voice was broken.

Therefore, parents should correct their mentality and look at learning with a more Buddhist attitude. This is the best self-help measure we can do.

(Tao Kaihe)