[Explanation] Recently, President Zhang Guimei of Huaping Women's High School refused to make donations from his full-time wife, causing heated discussions.
Some people think that being a full-time wife after receiving higher education means that the economy is not independent and the lack of public affairs is a waste of educational resources.
Some people think that choosing to return to the family is also a kind of contribution, and it does not mean that they are not moving forward.
What do you think of "full-time wife"?
Would you like to be your full-time wife or the "head husband" of your family?
Let’s hear what everyone says.
[Subtitles] Do you have a full-time wife by your side?
How is your education?
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Yes, not much.
My friend's friend has a doctor's full-time wife at home.
heard about it.
Basically, they also have college degree (degree) or even higher.
There are still some friends around (who are full-time wives), all of whom are college graduates.
There are so many in our community.
The general ones seem to be from colleges and universities.
Yes, there are at home and around.
Undergraduate.
I should be considered a full-time wife.
(Did you graduate with a bachelor's degree), yes.
[Subtitle] What do you know about the daily life of a full-time wife?
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Serve her husband at home to eat and drink, and her children to study.
Since I wake up in the morning, I have to prepare my family’s breakfast. I am very busy and busy during the washing and other day. I heard them say that it is more tired than going to work. I sound tired.
It’s not easy to cook and bring a baby.
Clean up the house and play games.
(Yet) no children.
Oh, I think the full-time wife is really like Monkey King 72, and she has to be proficient in all martial arts.
Make the baby’s nutritional meal, wash and clean, and accompany the child to read and teach him some intellectual development.
[Subtitles] Do you think a full-time wife is a career?
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Not a career, I think it is valuable but not a job.
Don't count, I always feel that work can't be called work if there is no income.
I can’t say this. I think the sacrifice she made is no less than the hard work of her husband working outside to make money.
Forget it, she paid more to take care of a family.
In my opinion, it should be regarded as a profession.
If there is no one to help you look after the children, then you have to pay for some confinement and childcare. To a certain extent, the full-time wife is responsible for this part of the expenditure for our family.
[Subtitles] There are opinions that full-time wives are not independent women. What do you think?
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Sure, if I would definitely not want it.
If the income is not under your control, then you have no confidence.
I don't think I agree. My previous income was quite high. I am now a full-time wife and I have never asked my family for a cent. It is all my original savings.
It all depends on one's own situation. I think we need to be financially independent.
If she wants to be independent, she is fine. Although there may be some unsatisfactory incomes, I think there is no problem in supporting herself.
She just sacrificed herself to take care of the family.
I don't think that can be said about this, because the family is considered to be a combination. If you care about the front, you will care for the back. Therefore, this should be complementary and cannot be said to be a generalization.
[Subtitles] Do you think it is wasteful to choose to be a full-time wife after receiving higher education?
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I think I have already struggled to become like that, and then it will definitely not be too hard to do other things.
I think being a full-time wife is a waste, a waste of resources.
I think it cannot be said to be a waste. The family is very important to people. For society, family stability and society are also stable.
I don’t think it’s a waste.
That's not a big deal. If you have a higher education and then you retreat to the family and take care of your baby, you can provide your baby with a better growth environment.
The country is also made up of every small family.
[Subtitles] Would you like to be a full-time wife or family "husband" by yourself or your significant other?
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I don't want it. I definitely don't want it.
I don't want to. A man has to support his family, unless his wife raises me.
(The other half is a full-time wife) I said that I am not particularly willing, and it depends on her thoughts.
If she (wife) wants to do it, then do it. If she doesn't want to, she will go to work. This is completely free.
(Being the "master" of the family) Of course I prefer it. It feels good for anyone who doesn't want to stay at home.
At present, I am also facing this choice. If there is really no other financial ability in the family or the elderly to help with the children, then I will definitely choose to take care of the baby.
In contrast, I feel that my income is not enough to allow him (husband) to take the children at home.
If my husband considers me, I would be willing.
(The other half is the "master husband" of the family), as long as the family is harmonious.
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Wang Shibo, Fan Siyi reports from Beijing
Editor in charge: [Song Fangcan]