China News Service, Taiyuan, September 7th, title: Shanxi: Man is paralyzed, wife is away from home, brother is not married, and takes care of the whole family for more than ten years

　　Author Wang Jianmin Liu Xiaohong

　　On the 7th, Fu Yanjun hurried home after finishing his work in the village, because his father who was unable to work, his mother who was in bed, his elder brother who was paralyzed by an accident, and his nephew who was still in school were waiting for him at home. Meals and care.

For 13 years, Fu Yanjun has been taking care of this shaky home day after day. He was only in his early 40s, but his hair was gray.

　　Fu Yanjun, 42 years old this year, is a villager in Kongjiajiao Village, Licheng, Shanxi. The middle-aged laborers like Fu Yanjun in the village are all working outside and earn 50,000 to 60,000 yuan a year. However, Fu Yanjun was born at home 13 years ago. For many years, he had to stay in the village to take care of his family.

Fu Yanjun wipes his brother's body Photo courtesy of Licheng County Press Center

　　In fact, 13 years ago, Fu Yanjun also had an enviable large family. Parents, brothers and sisters, nephews and nieces gathered together, and the family was happy; the two brothers worked outside all the year round and had considerable income. Although their parents were in poor health, The farm work in the field and the housework at home can also be handled. When the farm is busy, the brothers go home to help, and the life is warm and pleasant.

　　In November 2007, his brother Fu Xiaojun had an accident while driving a hand-held tractor to pull coal for his family, causing him to have a comminuted fracture of the lumbar spine and a rupture of the lumbar nerve. After treatment, Fu Xiaojun saved his life but was permanently paralyzed in bed, causing incontinence. , Life cannot take care of itself.

At that time, Fu Xiaojun was only 32 years old. He also had an 8-year-old daughter and a 10-month-old son.

Sudden changes occurred at home. Fu Yanjun's sister-in-law chose to divorce, while Fu Yanjun hid the pain and provoked the burden of taking care of his brother's family.

Fu Yanjun takes care of his family day after day.

Photo courtesy of Licheng County News Center

　　In the following days, Fu Yanjun will send his niece to and from school, help his parents take care of his nephew, go to work in the field, and give his brother a massage, feeding medicine, and cleaning up his bowels.

At night, Fu Yanjun had to follow the doctor’s instructions to turn over the patient once every two hours. Fu Yanjun, who had been busy for the day, curled up on the sofa because he was afraid that he would sleep deeply and did not dare to sleep on the bed. On winter nights, the mountainous countryside was empty and cold. , Fu Yanjun not only had to stand up for his brother, but also kept adding wood to the fire to burn the stove, so as not to make his brother sicker.

In order to take care of his elder brother more conveniently, Fu Yanjun learned how to intubate a urinary tube, get an injection, and perform rehabilitation massage...

　　His niece Fu Jiahui recalled that from childhood to school, whether it was windy or rainy, it was her uncle who sent herself into the car or picked him home from the 207 National Highway three or four miles away. “As long as you have your uncle by your side, Unspeakable warmth, in my own heart, I have already regarded my uncle as a father."

　　Fu Yanjun's family lives day after day.

Now, Fu Yanjun’s niece is already working, and his nephew is also in high school. The burden on Fu Yanjun could have been relieved, but the health of Fu Yanjun’s parents is not as good as each day.

Fu Yanjun’s elderly father suffered from lumbar degeneration, hypertension and other diseases, and almost lost the ability to work. Fu Yanjun’s mother suffered from rheumatoid arthritis, lumbar disc herniation and other diseases, and had just had hip joint replacement surgery. Need to rest in bed.

Therefore, the whole family's housework and farming work, such as "firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea", "cooking, washing the pot, washing clothes," "spring planting and autumn harvesting", all fell on Fu Yanjun.

Fu Yanjun is arranging work for the village rangers.

Photo courtesy of Licheng County News Center

　　Seeing her son's hardship, her mother Cheng Qiaoying felt very distressed, "Before the second child came back, he could still eat warm food. Since I lay in bed, now it is cold and cold no matter when he comes back, we are still waiting for him to cook. It’s our family that drags him down."

　　In addition to managing more than a dozen acres of land in his family, Fu Yanjun won the trust and respect of the whole village because of his persistence and hard work towards the "small family". He was elected as a member of the village committee with a high vote in 2016 and in 2018. Elected as a member of the "Two Committees" of the branch of Kongjiayu Village.

Fu Yanjun is now the busiest person in the village.

It is understood that Fu Yanjun is the best mediator for husband and wife quarrels and neighbourhood disputes; Fu Yanjun is the most suitable organizer for informing matters and organizing activities; Fu Yanjun is the timely rain in the village when he is sick and is hospitalized and takes care of orphans.

　　For many years, Fu Yanjun, who has been busy taking care of his family, is still unmarried, and he has worked hard no matter how hard he is.

He said: "Taking good care of the family is a private matter, and it is a person's duty. There are many people like this in our village." (End)