[Explanation] August 12th is International Youth Day. In the recent hit drama "Twenty Not Confused", several young people faced different growth problems and made different choices. Everyone faces various choices in their youth, such as studies, work, family, and love. Recently, reporters took to the streets to hear what young people in their twenties said.
[Word Board] Should I emphasize study or practice during college?
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Focusing on studies, students are first of all learning-oriented.
Studying, you must improve your heart, and then you can make some progress in practice.
When it comes to learning, the knowledge learned in school is definitely enough for you to use in your future work.
Pay more attention to practice. After all, you have to work, and you have to put everything in handy.
Practical ability, student union, etc., there are still quite a lot of activity organizations, and my current work will also be helpful.
Practice is more important. Experience and practice can help you walk longer.
[Word Board] Do you want to fall in love during college?
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I think so. After graduation, I enter society directly, and I don't have time to fall in love.
Of course, love is also a kind of learning. I have accumulated a lot of experience about love, so that I may still be hesitated at this age.
Yes, of course, you can get married after you get a good job after graduation.
I think this is good because they are all classmates and the relationship is relatively simple.
Appropriately, you can talk about it. University time is the best, so you can't just study, you should relax appropriately and fall in love.
[Word Board] Will the love that my parents disagree with continue?
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No, because I believe my parents’ vision is right. If my parents don't support it, even if this relationship continues, I don't think I will be happy.
Not necessarily listening completely, but I will consider the opinions of my parents, and I will ask my parents why it is inappropriate.
More than 80% follow their parents' opinions first, and may persuade them if they think it is appropriate.
It depends on how your parents object. If you think he is not good enough, you might consider it.
I will insist that parents may pay more attention to various rules or whatever, they will be very realistic.
Yes, I think it is my business to fall in love, and I will not live with them (parents) in the future.
If two people really want to be together, parental dissuasion will not have much effect.
[Word Board] Should children intervene in their parents' feelings?
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No, they are not my accessory, and I am not their accessory.
There is no need to intervene, they will live happily.
We should not interfere, because parents are so old after all, and life experience is richer than ours.
You can manage it appropriately, but the general direction still depends on them.
I think there is this responsibility and obligation. After all, the happiness of your parents has something to do with you.
You need to intervene. After you are in your 20s, you can be responsible for some of your thoughts or actions, and then you can see clearly, that is, the feelings of your parents. So when you see these things clearly, you can help them, maybe It is effective.
[Word Board] What is the biggest choice you have experienced in your 20s?
When I start a business or get a job, I will choose employment. I want to enter the workplace and experience the kind of humanity.
Choose between work and love, I will choose work, financial ability determines future life in the future.
In the industry, looking for a job is nothing more than in the hospital, and then in the medical company, because I don't want to work in the hospital for decades, so I chose to come out first.
My decision is that I use part of the money I earn to further study myself, and then learn a lot of things. Young people need money in life, but I still choose to invest in myself.
Whether to study abroad or study in my hometown, I may study in my hometown. Because I am studying in my hometown, I can be closer to my parents and can take care of my parents.
Get a job and go to school, and then the family still wants you to go to school, but a little bit that means I don’t want to go (promotion) anymore, so this may be the biggest choice I face.
[Word Board] Send blessings to young people in their 20s!
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Wish you, 20 years old, you will not forget the original intention of 18 years old and keep your original dream.
I wish you in your 20s can find your favorite girl.
You should chase whatever you like and think about yourself, don't worry too much.
Don't be timid, don't be afraid, determine your goal, and then stick to it.
Work hard, work hard.
Get richer and richer and harvest beautiful love.
Roll back the waves.
I wish all young people ride the wind and waves, the future is promising!
Reporter Fan Siyi reports from Beijing
Editor in charge: [Li Ji]