Enhance awareness and ability of guardianship and attach importance to the cultivation of "legal business"
How to illuminate the hidden corners of minors
The 12-episode web drama "The Hidden Corner" adapted from the mystery novel "Bad Child" ushered in the ratings not long ago. The play performed three minors who accidentally photographed a murder scene while climbing a mountain during the summer vacation, and was then involved in a series The story of the murder. The audience praised the whole drama's subtle reasoning plot, and they are also reflecting on: Who is to blame for the "evil" and "wrong" of some minors? Who should care? How to manage? A reporter from China Youth Daily and China Youth Daily interviewed Li Meijin, a professor and doctoral supervisor at the School of Law and Criminology of People’s Public Security University of China, and Yuan Ningning, an associate professor of China University of Political Science and Law and Executive Deputy Director of the Juvenile Affairs Governance and Legal Research Base, to discuss this issue. Explore.
Yuan Ningning, who has watched the show, analyzed that Zhu Chaoyang’s parents divorced, lacked father’s care, and lived in a strong educational environment of his mother. His native family led to his introverted and withdrawn personality, no friends, and was easily affected by social factors. And deviation behavior occurs. Yan Liang is the child of a compulsory drug rehabilitation worker, and Pupu is an orphan. All three minors had problems in their native families, and all had bad behaviors, as well as minor violations such as stealing and fighting.
"Juvenile delinquency develops slowly from some bad behaviors, and problem children are victims of problem families." Yuan Ningning believes that the whole drama needs people's attention and is the family education of children in difficulties.
Yuan Ningning pointed out that the guardianship, guardianship and education level of the original family affects the minors’ understanding of the outside world, others, and their own behaviors, and whether minors have problem behaviors or whether they are violated after entering adolescence. important meaning.
He explained that if there is a weak link in the guardianship and discipline of the minor’s original family, the minor will be in a state of free growth and will be easily affected by external adverse factors, especially after entering puberty, the secondary sexual characteristics of the body begin to develop. Under the combined influence of internal and external factors, both problem behaviors and bullying may occur.
Yuan Ningning summarized the current Chinese native family parenting methods into three types. The first is that parents maliciously fail to perform their guardianship duties, give birth without raising, nurture without education, and abandon their children deliberately or in disguise. The second is that objective factors lead to insufficient parental guardianship capabilities or temporary lack of guardianship conditions, resulting in minors temporarily unsupervised, such as children of prisoners, children of mental patients, children of compulsory drug rehabilitation and other "distressed children".
Yuan Ningning specifically mentioned that the third is the most common situation in my country's current family parenting methods, that is, parental guardianship is weak, insufficient guardianship, and lack of guidance for minors' behavior habits and values. This performance is outstanding for many parents of left-behind children.
A few days ago, a video of three girls on the roof of the building was circulated on the Internet. In the video, the girl in blue clasped her hands on the guardrail and turned to watch two younger girls playing on the edge of the roof. Some netizens said that the suspected instigation behavior of the girl in blue is the real "secret corner". Some netizens also raised questions about the family education of the three girls: Do parents know that children climb the roof of the building? How do you educate your children? Haven't you told your children that this is dangerous?
Li Meijin observes that many parents blindly ask their children to "have good academic performance and become outstanding", but they don't care about their children's usual minor problems.
Li Meijin suggested that, regardless of whether the family is healthy or not, parents should establish a good parent-child relationship with their children as soon as possible, so that the children feel safe and have emotional sustenance for the family. When they grow up, they will form a three-dimensional emotional network with relatives and friends; to cultivate good children Four traits are grasped for his personality: persist in doing things and don’t give up lightly; face life positively and optimistically; act boldly, not looking forward to the future; not humble or overbearing, able to distinguish between good and evil.
Yuan Ningning pointed out that the law is the last line of defense to prevent juvenile delinquency. Beyond this line of defense, parents and schools must provide minors with necessary and sufficient legal education to effectively cultivate their children’s "legal business" and help They establish a legal red line awareness. Yuan Ningning said that juvenile crimes are often caused by multiple internal and external factors. Parents "must understand their feelings, characteristics, and behavioral development from the perspective of minors." Parents should change their minds. They should not always think that "my child will not break the law or commit a crime, even if something happens, he can only be a victim", but should think about "what if my child breaks the law and commits a crime? Where can we not do it well" Help parents to carry out family education more objectively.
Summer vacation is here, how to brighten the "secret corners" of minors? Yuan Ningning mentioned that based on past experience and lessons, minors have safety hazards such as drowning and electric shock during summer vacation. "Parents should give more passport information than usual." He combined the "Minor Protection Act" and "The Prevention of Juvenile Delinquency Act" two laws and their revised drafts to put forward three suggestions. Parents, schools, and teachers of the students should effectively educate students about the safety of drowning to ensure the safety of primary and secondary school students during the summer vacation and minimize the possibility of drowning accidents. The second is that parents should not leave minors under 8 years of age unattended; as far as possible, place electrical appliances with electric shock and fire safety hazards in places where children under 8 years of age cannot easily reach them. Third, the guardian should not leave the guardianship of minors under 16 years old, and should not allow them to live alone.
China Youth Daily·China Youth Daily reporter Jiao Minlong Source: China Youth Daily