If it were not for "Sister Who Rides the Wind and Waves", many people thought that Yi Nengjing was in her 30s or 40s, but she didn't expect that she had entered the 50+. The 52-year-old Yinengjing became the oldest member of the "Sister Who Rides the Wind and Waves" program, and even her 36-year debut was older than the many female guests on the show. Yinengjing did not confess her age. She said, "If I get married earlier, I will be born with Lan Yingying."

　　Yinengjing debuted as a female group when she was 17 years old. Qiu Haizheng and Fang Wenlin, who formed a group with her, have become very old names with a sense of time and faded out of the performing arts circle. Only she has never left the public eye. The slender figure and the girlish face naturally extend the preservation period of Yinengjing as a female star. Behind this is the skin care cost of up to 7 digits per year and the self-discipline close to self-abuse-quit beef, pork, fine starch and everything Snacks, desserts, only eat greens and low-sugar fruits.

　　Many people think that Yi Nengjing is a glass heart, and a few gossips of netizens will make her write a "small composition" on Weibo, which looks particularly unbearable. But in fact, to talk about "ride the wind and waves", probably no one in the program can afford these four words more than Yinengjing. I remember reading the entertainment gossip magazine in middle school, and I remember this strange woman who has gone through thousands of times. Looking at Yi Nengjing's growth experience, I know what it means to mean "unfortunate people are curing their childhood all their lives". If Yi Nengjing’s experience before the age of 16 was made into a film and television work, the most ruthless screenwriter would not dare to write this way, probably worse than the protagonist in the Japanese film "The Life of the Abandoned Pine Nut", Su Mingyu’s in "All Good" The pain of the original family has become insignificant in front of Yinengjing.

　　Yinengjing is the youngest daughter in the family, and there are six sisters above her. Parents who wanted their son wholeheartedly fell apart because of Yi Nengjing's birth. At the age of 6, Yi Nengjing was sent by her mother to live with her elder sister and brother-in-law who were far away in Hong Kong. She was treated as a burden. She was exhausted until she was 12 years old. Yineng Jingjiang". Yinengjing, who is not able to speak the language, was isolated by bullying at school. When she returned to her home, her mother would sneer at her. From the age of 14, Yinengjing made money for herself by washing dishes.

　　In such a wandering life of independence and unrestrainedness, Yi Nengjing later wrote the song "Wandering Children" in his lyrics, "The wandering children shed tears for themselves, the wandering children laughed in their hearts, where should the wandering children go? . "Yangeng has a skin-cut feeling.

　　At the age of 16, Yineng was caught by the brokerage company, but she must have a guardian to sign the contract for her underage. Yi Nengjing found his biological father to sign a contract for her, and the night after signing the contract, his father died in a car accident. That night, her new album "Dad Don't Say" will begin recording. The biological father left her with not only few fatherly loves, but also debts of nearly 10 million yuan owed due to investment failure.

　　Yinengjing said that she has lived like a man since she was 16 years old. Obviously a girl in the family, but lived to become the eldest son. Yineng Jingxing wins a lot of photos and blazes in the second year of her debut, but the money she earns has not been in her hands for more than two days, and was used to repay the debt in a flash. In the hottest period, she said that she was not happy one day, "laughing during the day, crying at night." Such an experience, but placed on a sensitive and delicate soul, stimulated Yinengjing to later write the lyrics in "Spring Mud"-"Those painful memories fell in the spring mud. Nourished the earth, opened the next one "Hua Ji." It wasn't to express sorrow for the new words. The pain, illness, grief, uneasiness, and confusion in the lyrics written by Yi Nengjing and the article all grew out of the cracks in her life.

　　She regards her partner as a driftwood in her life, and wants to solve all problems such as the pain of the original family and the confusion of the relationship between men and women by grabbing each other. But finding the target is not looking for a doctor, and there may be new symptoms. Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing's long-distance love run, the first run is 14 years, of which 12 years are underground.

　　The 9-year marriage ended in Yi Nengjing's exposed "hand in hand door". It is not known when the cracks in the marriage started from outsiders, but after the divorce, Yinengjing told the media that "I have never been Yu's family". I can imagine how humble her family status. She compares herself to "The Frightened Bird" "It's all wrong to live". After her husband was a famous person, he had not been allowed to enter for 14 years in love, and was called "little girl" by her mother-in-law. There was only one drawer in her family after marriage... These bits and pieces would probably destroy a person's confidence in marriage.

　　Remarrying at the age of 45 and reborn at the age of 47, not only started the second spring for Yinengjing, but also opened a second life. She said that she was making up for the shortcomings of her life before she was 45 years old, and only after that she began to become complete. Qin Hao will say bluntly when she "gets fine" upper body: "You are sick, you have to be cured!" He said, "If you continue like this, you will only encounter two kinds of men in your life. One is sympathetic with you. Yes, you perform bitter acts together every day; one kind wants to be your doctor and is responsible for treating you."

　　For the children, Yinengjing almost became a full-time housewife. In addition to participating in variety shows, she only took on some small roles and experienced addiction. Qin Hao felt that his wife wasted the acting talent that God gave her. After all, she was also an actor who nominated the Golden Horse Award for Best Actress twice. Ke Nengjing said, "If I have a happy family, I will definitely say that acting is my life, but a child like me, the most wanted, is a home."

　　Last month, Yi Nengjing wrote a "small composition" for Qin Haoqingsheng, sharing his insights on a seven-year marriage. "Those who seem to be the most practical tea oil and salt are the most gentle romance in life. Some people cook, Someone listened to the words, and there was a temperature when sleeping." After half a lifetime in the wind and waves, Yinengjing returned to the fireworks harbor on earth.

　　Liu Yuhan