From 9pm to 10pm, it's time for my family to sit around and watch TV. It is to connect the world travel program of the parent broadcaster with the Korean travel program. This is the small pleasure of parents who have entered old age. But one day, the TV went off and went to the bedroom. Why stop watching your favorite program? After looking at it for a few days, I understand why. It was because of a campaign sponsored by a child protection group that appeared in an interim advertisement. The advertisement, which asked to help children die from being abused, was re-enacting the abuse of child actors.
And the last scene was a child staring at us across the screen. With the words that your sponsor phone can save this child. My parents, who left their children first in a fire accident at the beginning of their honeymoon, do not see the children dying. Moreover, the reenactment of a child dying of abuse would have been impossible to see with his eyes open. In particular, the existing child abuse sponsorship campaign used a voice actor from an adult's point of view, but this advertisement puts the narration in the child's own hands, making our breath even more breathtaking.
"My mom and dad are having a hard time because I was born."
"I'm an ugly child, so
I have to
be scolded." "Is it a big deal if I ask someone to help me ?"
If the above sentences are heard in our ears in the voice of a five-year-old child, what do you think? You will feel terrible that you cannot say anything. Which sentence is the heaviest? I was the second sentence. When it comes to child abuse, I came to think of'You are a good child', which is always known as one of the best movies. Remake of the best-selling novel of the same name, this film reveals the psychology of children being abused.
I can't think of myself as a victim of abuse, so I think my mom will forgive me if I'm doing something wrong and I'm a good boy. Do you feel from the title? It shows the process in which a child's unique, pure heart is counterproductive because he is a bad child rather than thinking that his mother is an evil person. And the abuser's parents are increasingly brainwashing as they see'the child is sprouting'. It's just that he beats me because he's wrong and justifies his violence.
In fact, it is similar in the reality outside the movie. Some of the young people I met through counseling grew up in childhood as a child of these abuses. One of their habits is "I am not normal, I am in trouble, I am wrong." When I was young, I grew up praying "I'm wrong" even if it wasn't my fault, and I was stuck in the frame so I thought that all bad things happened "I was wrong". In the end, it is often difficult to reach a level where you cannot lead a normal social life.
What about us facing such a situation? My heart is sorrowful and poor, but I can't think of anything we can do. Perhaps the reason my parents left without seeing the advertisement was because of the helpless feeling that there was nothing else to do other than paying 20,000 won a month in front of the message that you should help this child. However, this situation is natural. It is true that there is not much that an'individual' can do for child abuse.
There is a parent, and children have to live with their parents, a'normal family' frame. Children are leaving one by one again. The time has come for us to switch frames to'erasing', not protection anymore. Isn't it necessary to change the related laws and systems that lay the basic premise of the family as a more urgent thing than to inspire empathy with movies and novels, rather than to call for sponsorship calls to individual citizens? Even at this point in time, there may not be much time for those children who can only do so in front of the abuse.
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