China News Service Client, Beijing, May 31 (Yuan Xiuyue) If there is a time machine that gives you the opportunity to travel to the past and see an 18-year-old mother, what will you do?

  Be friends with her? Supervise her to study hard? Or encourage her to pursue a better life? Or reveal the secret of life in advance? Recently, the online drama "I don't want to be your friend" has restored this bold idea.

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Go to the past to be a girlfriend with mom?

  The protagonist of the story is a pair of mother and daughter, mother Li Qingtong, daughter Li Jinjin. Li Jinjian was born in a single-parent family and lives with his mother, but in her mind, Li Qingtong is not a qualified mother.

  Not only is it unreliable, but he is also particularly irresponsible. I can't be busy at home all day, and it's common to get drunk at the door. She also often bragged about the school's opening of a parent meeting. She claimed to have graduated from a prestigious school, but was demolished by the public, causing her daughter to be laughed at by her classmates. The mother and daughter have different ideas about many things, so they quarreled all day.

  Li Jinjian doesn't feel the care and care of her mother, and because she often moves, she hasn't made any friends. She has been alone since childhood.

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  Here at her daughter, Li Qingtong, her mother, seems to have failed. But as a daughter, Li Jinjin never thought about it. Is this the way the mother was, what did she do to raise the child alone?

  A wonderful trip allows Li Jinjin to get close to the answers to these questions. She returned to 1999, where the mother grew up in Tieyuan. At this time, Li Qingtong was only 18 years old, which was different from the image of a middle-aged mother. The 18-year-old Li Qingtong lived carefree under the protection of his parents. His character was very carefree. Clip to the head. But she was straightforward and able to stand up for her friends. Li Jinjin pretends to be a big friend of her childhood, and she has no doubt that she even brought Li Jinjin to her home to live.

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What can be changed by crossing into the past?

  For many people, the charm of time and space travel is to be able to change the past and make up for regrets. In a post “If you see a 17-year-old mom, what do you want to do”, netizens have a variety of ideas. There are roughly three categories. One is to let mom study hard and pursue his dreams. When you go to your father, do n’t sacrifice yourself for marriage; there is another category that you want to take care of and help your mother.

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  Li Jinjian is no exception. Back in 1999, her first thought was to urge Li Qingtong to study hard, but Li Qingtong was very hard-working and did not like to study. Mathematics could only take 17 points. To this end, Li Jinjin racked his brains, not only went to school with Li Qingtong, supervised her homework during the holiday, but also tried to find a way for Wu Zhixun, the best student in the class, to make up for her class.

  The second is the father. Li Jinjin learned from his mother's divorce certificate that his father is Chen Junhe. This person is a "mixed devil" from Li Qingtong's school. To this end, she did everything possible to obstruct Li Qingtong and Chen Jun's exchanges, so as not to cause future marriage tragedies.

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  However, life is fickle, even if you know the future, you may not be able to change the past. The obstruction of Li Progress made Chen Junhe notice Li Qingtong unexpectedly. Wu Zhixun supplemented Li Qingtong's class, and the two also had an intersection. At the same time, some old events also appeared in front of Li Jinjin. It turned out that during the second year of high school, Li Qingtong's father was laid off due to the closure of the factory, and the family has since lost a stable source of income.

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  There are also some emotional moments in the play. When 18-year-old Li Qingtong was hospitalized, he was accompanied by parents and friends, and a group of people cared for him. But in middle age, when Li Qingtong became ill, only her daughter remained.

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Different youth dramas reveal the pain points of parent-child relationship

  At present, "I don't want to be friends with you" is broadcast halfway. In Douban, nearly 20,000 netizens gave 8.4 points. Many people rated the scene as true, the plot is not long-winded, the actors performed online, and the Northeast-style humor in the play also added a lot to the plot. In addition, a lot of suspense in the play has also become a topic of discussion, such as who is Li Jinjin ’s father in the end, and whether Li Jinjin can change the past and so on.

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  "I don't want to be your friend", through the daughter's "travel", restores the mother's growth process, but also in the youthful feelings of young boys and girls, infused with the flavours of life, showing the plight of the parent-child relationship.

  In real life, Li Jinjin has always complained that her mother is irresponsible and always absent when she needs company, so that she cannot have a normal family and happy childhood like everyone else. However, going back to the past, Li Jinjin saw the 18-year-old Li Qingtong, and she finally understood that her mother was just a little girl who was cared for. Before becoming a mother, she was also an independent individual.

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  Misunderstandings are often caused by unequal information. After the two became girlfriends, Li Jinxing also stood in an equal position for the first time to communicate with his mother to reach an unprecedented understanding. Mutual trust and equal treatment are the most important aspects of parent-child relationship.

  At the same time, the lonely Li Jinjian finally had company. She saw her grandma and grandpa, felt the warmth of her family, and had friends who told her things. In this fantasy journey, Li Jinjin's childhood regrets were slightly compensated.

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  In recent years, domestic youth dramas are "emerging out of the army", resulting in many excellent works, from "Hello, Old Time" and "The Best of Us" to "Come Together in the Window" and "I Wait for You in the Future". Campus life is extended to increase thinking about real life. Do not spoil the dog's blood, don't rely on the face value, but start with the content and details, short and delicate without losing the texture.

  Experts once commented that youth dramas are not afraid of routines, but they need more novel themes and more realistic expressions. In fact, not only youth dramas, but also other types of TV dramas need to get rid of gimmicks and get out of the routine. (Finish)